Comments on: Look East Policy

By: Banji

Banji — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 10:30:00 +0000

koromyst – The real issue is not on why she is shocked in the first place. The fact that she is shocked means that nobody had ever shown any appreciation and treat everything just like a business transaction, nothing more.

Thus clearly show how stingy we are in term of giving appreciation

By: k o r o m y s t

k o r o m y s t — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 05:12:00 +0000

Why she seemed shocked? She wasn’t the one who cooked the meal so yea, she was kinda shocked when someone actually complimented her for something she didn’t do hehehe… Second, she probably wasn’t expecting anyone coming up to her with praises. She was, however, expecting money. K-ching! Hehehehe…

By: Banji

Banji — Fri, 20 Jul 2007 09:15:00 +0000

kakluna – thanx… thats the first reason i started this in english. To improve my english. and if it can help other people in the process, it will be even better.

however, im not sure i get what you mean by greeting. maybe complement it with some examples, perhaps?

By: kakLuna

kakLuna — Fri, 20 Jul 2007 07:59:00 +0000

yup, this positive culture should been practised by us but have to clearly differentiate between appreciation and greetings coz both make different effect. more of greet sometimes turn people to become riya’.

and,

i also would like to thank banji coz writing this blog in english.it is like my e-tuition class when reading your blog .

By: Banji

Banji — Fri, 20 Jul 2007 07:13:00 +0000

azuwachan – “tak pernah ade org puji aku, so knp plak aku nak puji org??”.. tepat betul ayat tu, mmg tu la cara org kite fikir, semuanya nak kena ada balasan pada kita, baru kite buat…

filantera – jgn… nanti dari McD VIP jadi McD Banned hehehe. tapi apart from that, pujian (provided yg ikhlas) mmg sentiasa boleh mengubah mood org menerima tu)

By: filantera

filantera — Fri, 20 Jul 2007 05:02:00 +0000

huhuhuhuh really puji pujian tu best kalau kena tempatnyer

okay lepas ni mmg nak start wat benda ni balik la

tp kalau McD drivetru camner nak puji ek?camni leh...
"u have such a soft hand....can i hold it a bit longer?"

(-_-') bersedia nak kena sepak oleh banji hehehhe

By: azuwachan

azuwachan — Fri, 20 Jul 2007 04:30:00 +0000

yes, totally agree with you.
org kita tak bese appreciate orgnye hasil tangan. dan kita juga tak dibiasakan dgn pujian. sbb tu la,
"tak pernah ade org puji aku, so knp plak aku nak puji org??"
haa... camtu aa org Melayu.
Sbb tu la lebih elok kalau ibu bapa selalu, kalau tak puji, appreciate anaknye kerja. Kalau dia basuh pinggan ke, cakap, "ha, macam tula anak mak. rajin buat kerja."
see, dari situ kita akan belajar menghargai, betul??
anyway, you've been tagged!! to my blog, please x)