Comments on: How To Know He/She Is The One? http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/ Sharing Ideas & Experience Daily Sun, 04 Jul 2010 08:41:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: Banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-963 Banji Sat, 22 Sep 2007 17:02:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-963 intan - org yg kita yakin boleh to the end dgn kita.. <br/><br/>sbb spouse ni yg paling perlukan each other bukannye masa senang, tapi masa susah nanti. intan – org yg kita yakin boleh to the end dgn kita..

sbb spouse ni yg paling perlukan each other bukannye masa senang, tapi masa susah nanti.

]]> By: intankamaruddin http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-962 intankamaruddin Sat, 22 Sep 2007 09:46:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-962 Love is love!<br/><br/>Someone also asked me how do u know if he's the one (that someone is btw, my bf's sister).<br/><br/>My answer was, "I imagine my old wrinkle days, and I see him standing beside me". Love is love!

Someone also asked me how do u know if he’s the one (that someone is btw, my bf’s sister).

My answer was, “I imagine my old wrinkle days, and I see him standing beside me”.

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-961 banji Fri, 21 Sep 2007 08:10:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-961 dorkistic!design - can I assume you are asking azuwachan those question?<br/><br/>Surrounding people does have some effect on us. When everyone is in love, the tendency is.. we will open up our heart a bit more to love. <br/><br/>Good point there dorkistic design<br/><br/><br/><br/>Fairuzniza - I highly recommend you read the Pisau Cukur Ockham... basically, never assume anything in a relationship. <br/><br/>From your writing there, it's very clear how you felt for him. And it's clear also that you didn't know what he's feeling for you. <br/><br/>So never assume that he knows that you have feeling for him. A little progressive hinting will help the guy realize that his feeling (if any) is the same as yours.<br/><br/>Some of the biggest mistake we ever make, is assuming people know what we are feeling or thinking about :) dorkistic!design – can I assume you are asking azuwachan those question?

Surrounding people does have some effect on us. When everyone is in love, the tendency is.. we will open up our heart a bit more to love.

Good point there dorkistic design

Fairuzniza – I highly recommend you read the Pisau Cukur Ockham… basically, never assume anything in a relationship.

From your writing there, it’s very clear how you felt for him. And it’s clear also that you didn’t know what he’s feeling for you.

So never assume that he knows that you have feeling for him. A little progressive hinting will help the guy realize that his feeling (if any) is the same as yours.

Some of the biggest mistake we ever make, is assuming people know what we are feeling or thinking about :)

]]> By: fairuzniza http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-959 fairuzniza Fri, 21 Sep 2007 07:27:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-959 hmmm...<br/>seems like i'm in the same situation..with the same conditions, and the same questions...<br/><br/>until now, even we've been knowing each other only for about 2 months, i rili don't know what is this 'feeling' in my heart. <br/><br/>it seems like something, but i never really can admit it. <br/><br/>whenever i met him, and he didnt notice me or didnt smile at me, i'll feel terribly disappointed and frustrated. and i can just simply smsed him and said 'thank you for ignoring me' where the truth was he didnt see me. <br/><br/>and i often get jealous to see him with someone else or to hear him saying others' names. wehenever he did that, there's always been a heartache inside me. <br/><br/>argh...and when i see him smile, it's like all my worries are swept away. i just love to hear words from him. <br/><br/>love it when he cares bout me.<br/>love it when he smsed me.<br/>love it when he smiled at me.<br/>love it when he asked me what's wrong with me.<br/>love it when...<br/><b>he does everything</b><br/><br/>yeap...until now, i'm not sure what am i feeling...<br/><br/>is this love? or just a crush? <br/><br/><b>i do not know</b> hmmm…
seems like i’m in the same situation..with the same conditions, and the same questions…

until now, even we’ve been knowing each other only for about 2 months, i rili don’t know what is this ‘feeling’ in my heart.

it seems like something, but i never really can admit it.

whenever i met him, and he didnt notice me or didnt smile at me, i’ll feel terribly disappointed and frustrated. and i can just simply smsed him and said ‘thank you for ignoring me’ where the truth was he didnt see me.

and i often get jealous to see him with someone else or to hear him saying others’ names. wehenever he did that, there’s always been a heartache inside me.

argh…and when i see him smile, it’s like all my worries are swept away. i just love to hear words from him.

love it when he cares bout me.
love it when he smsed me.
love it when he smiled at me.
love it when he asked me what’s wrong with me.
love it when…
he does everything

yeap…until now, i’m not sure what am i feeling…

is this love? or just a crush?

i do not know

]]> By: DORKISTIC!design http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-960 DORKISTIC!design Fri, 21 Sep 2007 07:27:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-960 sorry...HIS... sorry…HIS…

]]> By: DORKISTIC!design http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-958 DORKISTIC!design Fri, 21 Sep 2007 07:26:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-958 bro. Banji got a very good points in her post..i like it...<br/><br/>but then, some question arise..is it u think it's love because everyone around u is in the mood of love or already in love and you're the one without a BF? or maybe because u think it's time to have one? hmm.. bro. Banji got a very good points in her post..i like it…

but then, some question arise..is it u think it’s love because everyone around u is in the mood of love or already in love and you’re the one without a BF? or maybe because u think it’s time to have one? hmm..

]]> By: Banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-957 Banji Fri, 21 Sep 2007 04:20:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-957 azuwachan - the chances to be his girlfriend is below zero? takpe.. biarlah statement ni jadi rahsia. cuma sekadar peringatan, kalau org tu dah bertunang, and if im not mistaken, mmg berdosa jika kita pursue jugak cuba memikat hati dia. tambah pulak kalau suami org. maaf kalau tu bukan the case, since tak banyak info, this is just a general reminder :)<br/><br/>in case dia bukan tunang atau suami org, takde salahnya azuwachan cuba mengenali dia lebih rapat. at least u will know him better, and in the meantime, maybe he will notice the attention :)<br/><br/>just my 2 cents azuwachan – the chances to be his girlfriend is below zero? takpe.. biarlah statement ni jadi rahsia. cuma sekadar peringatan, kalau org tu dah bertunang, and if im not mistaken, mmg berdosa jika kita pursue jugak cuba memikat hati dia. tambah pulak kalau suami org. maaf kalau tu bukan the case, since tak banyak info, this is just a general reminder :)

in case dia bukan tunang atau suami org, takde salahnya azuwachan cuba mengenali dia lebih rapat. at least u will know him better, and in the meantime, maybe he will notice the attention :)

just my 2 cents

]]> By: Banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-956 Banji Fri, 21 Sep 2007 04:14:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-956 filantera - interesting kan perkara perasaan ni, banyak cara nak tengok.<br/><br/>perkara yg kita patut eliminate utk faham the word love, kdg2 mungkin antara ciri2 yg perlu ada dlm perasaan tu :) <br/><br/>mmg sukar difahami... so basically apa yg kita boleh buat, ialah bina definisi kita sendiri :)<br/><br/>setuju 100% dgn pendapat yg mengatakan cinta sejati ialah cinta ilahi. filantera – interesting kan perkara perasaan ni, banyak cara nak tengok.

perkara yg kita patut eliminate utk faham the word love, kdg2 mungkin antara ciri2 yg perlu ada dlm perasaan tu :)

mmg sukar difahami… so basically apa yg kita boleh buat, ialah bina definisi kita sendiri :)

setuju 100% dgn pendapat yg mengatakan cinta sejati ialah cinta ilahi.

]]> By: azuwachan http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-955 azuwachan Fri, 21 Sep 2007 03:31:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-955 ok bang banji, got your point this time.<br/>hmm... to tell you the truth I am not that close to him, but he knew me and I know him.<br/>We never chat like everyday stuff, but we only talk about 'work', things related with both of us. (however 'work isn't the exact word, but I cannot describe the real one here. I am afraid 'somebody' would know who's the man I fell for, huhu~)<br/>But we don't see each other everyday, haa... but it's not that rare. <br/>so that's why I cannot confirm yet that I really fall in love with him<br/>or not. and that's why I'm confused, huhu~<br/>anyway, I believe he's a good man =)<br/>but the chances to be his 'special friend' is below zero la. why??<br/>hehe... biarlah rahsia xp ok bang banji, got your point this time.
hmm… to tell you the truth I am not that close to him, but he knew me and I know him.
We never chat like everyday stuff, but we only talk about ‘work’, things related with both of us. (however ‘work isn’t the exact word, but I cannot describe the real one here. I am afraid ‘somebody’ would know who’s the man I fell for, huhu~)
But we don’t see each other everyday, haa… but it’s not that rare.
so that’s why I cannot confirm yet that I really fall in love with him
or not. and that’s why I’m confused, huhu~
anyway, I believe he’s a good man =)
but the chances to be his ‘special friend’ is below zero la. why??
hehe… biarlah rahsia xp

]]> By: filantera http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/comment-page-1/#comment-954 filantera Fri, 21 Sep 2007 02:39:00 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/09/20/how-to-know-heshe-is-the-one/#comment-954 heheheh nice topic.<br/><br/>actually.........mmmmmmmm all the three things that banji said is true.<br/><br/>tp kekadang itu yang buatkan kita love him/her<br/><br/>maybe a crush the looks.....itu yang first that catch the eyes, ramai yang catch the eyes tp dia sorng yang takleh lupa...yang bleh hidup bersama...then baru sedar kebaikan dia........<br/><br/>maybe the kindness.......ramai yang kind, but his way of showing that he is care make u meltz..........<br/><br/>maybe the attitude....u fall in love with him because of attitude...tp kalau fall in love ngan justin timberlake for attitude is not love la kut hhaha<br/><br/>the thing is, when u are in love.. u feel comfortable. u feel u need him/her. u feel u can live without him but truthfully u cant!<br/><br/>kalau nak cari cinta sejati, percayalah kita takkan jumpa hingga ke akhirat,....kerana cinta sejati hanya pada ilahi!<br/><br/>~~pergh ayat pagi pagi jemaat!!:) heheheh nice topic.

actually………mmmmmmmm all the three things that banji said is true.

tp kekadang itu yang buatkan kita love him/her

maybe a crush the looks…..itu yang first that catch the eyes, ramai yang catch the eyes tp dia sorng yang takleh lupa…yang bleh hidup bersama…then baru sedar kebaikan dia……..

maybe the kindness…….ramai yang kind, but his way of showing that he is care make u meltz……….

maybe the attitude….u fall in love with him because of attitude…tp kalau fall in love ngan justin timberlake for attitude is not love la kut hhaha

the thing is, when u are in love.. u feel comfortable. u feel u need him/her. u feel u can live without him but truthfully u cant!

kalau nak cari cinta sejati, percayalah kita takkan jumpa hingga ke akhirat,….kerana cinta sejati hanya pada ilahi!

~~pergh ayat pagi pagi jemaat!!:)

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