Comments on: 4 Definite Ways To Be Committed http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/ Sharing Ideas & Experience Daily Sun, 04 Jul 2010 08:41:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/comment-page-1/#comment-1163 banji Thu, 25 Oct 2007 16:22:35 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/#comment-1163 Interesting idea... insyaAllah akan dijadikan entry. tapi pasal anak dimasa depan tu, rasanya kita tak leh salahkan mak ayah kalau terlalu jagakan anak, tgk sendiri skrg... pergi beraya pun boleh kena rogol, dunia dah makin gila... dan kalau biarkan anak2 buat keputusan sendiri, tanpa sebarang panduan... terlampau risiko. tapi betul la apa yg azuwachan cakap, kena bagi kebebasan yg terkawal pada anak2, kalau tak bagi dia akan cari sendiri dan itu selalunya lebih membahayakan. tapi keyword nya ialah terkawal... biar dia belajar dari kesalahan dia, tapi mak ayah tahu. banyak sy kena belajar lagi ttg parenting :) Interesting idea… insyaAllah akan dijadikan entry.

tapi pasal anak dimasa depan tu, rasanya kita tak leh salahkan mak ayah kalau terlalu jagakan anak, tgk sendiri skrg… pergi beraya pun boleh kena rogol, dunia dah makin gila…

dan kalau biarkan anak2 buat keputusan sendiri, tanpa sebarang panduan… terlampau risiko.

tapi betul la apa yg azuwachan cakap, kena bagi kebebasan yg terkawal pada anak2, kalau tak bagi dia akan cari sendiri dan itu selalunya lebih membahayakan. tapi keyword nya ialah terkawal… biar dia belajar dari kesalahan dia, tapi mak ayah tahu. banyak sy kena belajar lagi ttg parenting :)

]]> By: azuwachan http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/comment-page-1/#comment-1162 azuwachan Thu, 25 Oct 2007 14:46:32 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/#comment-1162 hehe... what I always stand for is, 'YOU MUST KNOW WHAT YOU REALLY WANT FOR YOURSELF FIRST'. Once you got it, don't let it go. Just grab it and do it. And love it. Then the thing called commitment will come automatically. Tp malangnya ramai rakan2 yang tak pernah nak mengerti diri sendiri tp cuba nak memahami orang lain. Sedih, kan?? So bang Banji, bila anak abang dah keluar, dah besar, let him/her do what s/he wants, tp dalam batas2 yang tidak melampaui agama dan undang2. Let him/her learns about him/herself first before they learn about others, ok??! hehe.. mcm dah ada pengalaman plak :) hehe… what I always stand for is,
‘YOU MUST KNOW WHAT YOU REALLY WANT FOR YOURSELF FIRST’.
Once you got it, don’t let it go. Just grab it and do it.
And love it. Then the thing called commitment will come automatically.
Tp malangnya ramai rakan2 yang tak pernah nak mengerti diri sendiri tp cuba nak memahami orang lain. Sedih, kan??
So bang Banji, bila anak abang dah keluar, dah besar, let him/her do what s/he wants, tp dalam batas2 yang tidak melampaui agama dan undang2. Let him/her learns about him/herself first before they learn about others, ok??!
hehe.. mcm dah ada pengalaman plak :)

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/comment-page-1/#comment-1153 banji Wed, 24 Oct 2007 14:56:52 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/#comment-1153 azuwachan - bila dah passionate about a thing, walaupun susah... takde yg menghalang kan. mcm blogging gak, pernah baca dulu.. when we don't enjoy blogging, just stop. :) blogging is hard work.. and u should only do it if ure having fun with it boleh tolong emailkan borang iium anklung club tu? heheh mcm le berbakat main muzik. dulu belajar main gitar, reti le satu lagu... 10 tahun lepas tu, masih reti satu lagu tu jugak ahhaha seronok bila dgr org yg passionate about the thing talk about the thing... :) azuwachan – bila dah passionate about a thing, walaupun susah… takde yg menghalang kan.

mcm blogging gak, pernah baca dulu.. when we don’t enjoy blogging, just stop. :) blogging is hard work.. and u should only do it if ure having fun with it

boleh tolong emailkan borang iium anklung club tu? heheh mcm le berbakat main muzik. dulu belajar main gitar, reti le satu lagu… 10 tahun lepas tu, masih reti satu lagu tu jugak ahhaha

seronok bila dgr org yg passionate about the thing talk about the thing… :)

]]> By: azuwachan http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/comment-page-1/#comment-1152 azuwachan Wed, 24 Oct 2007 13:40:26 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/#comment-1152 hmm.. commitment tu akan dtg sendiri kalau rasa suka terhadap sesuatu tu ade. ala, mcm org bercinta, hujan ka, ribut ka, kalau nak kuar berdating mesti jadi punya. macam tula commitment ni. how am I stay committed? simply if I love it so much I won't let myself 'ponteng' from doing that thing. probably, that's what people call obsession, but actually I'm proud of it :) and tell you the truth, it ain't easy to stay committed. tak caye, cuba try join IIUM angklung club, hehe... hmm.. commitment tu akan dtg sendiri kalau rasa suka terhadap sesuatu tu ade.
ala, mcm org bercinta, hujan ka, ribut ka, kalau nak kuar berdating mesti jadi punya. macam tula commitment ni.
how am I stay committed? simply if I love it so much I won’t let myself ‘ponteng’ from doing that thing.
probably, that’s what people call obsession, but actually I’m proud of it :)
and tell you the truth, it ain’t easy to stay committed. tak caye, cuba try join IIUM angklung club, hehe…

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/comment-page-1/#comment-1151 banji Wed, 24 Oct 2007 11:39:27 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/#comment-1151 :) tapi tu la.. susah jugak nak sukakan something, kalau dah mmg tak suka. kan? :) tapi tu la.. susah jugak nak sukakan something, kalau dah mmg tak suka. kan?

]]> By: filantera http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/comment-page-1/#comment-1150 filantera Wed, 24 Oct 2007 06:24:23 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/#comment-1150 yup, takut plak org salah faham hehehe..... tp tula, benda bila tak disukai, yang best pun terasa tak best.... yup, takut plak org salah faham hehehe…..

tp tula, benda bila tak disukai, yang best pun terasa tak best….

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/comment-page-1/#comment-1149 banji Wed, 24 Oct 2007 04:44:17 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/#comment-1149 a very well written point. :) mcm org bercinta kan cakap, lautan api pun sanggup kurenangi. berenang tu... bukan setakat tapak tangan, banyak lagi permukaan kulit kena api.. tapi sanggup gak hehe hm baru nak faham apa yg dimaksudkan dgn personal note altered tu, maksud filantera... kalau tak sayang kan isteri, akan mula lah rasa cranky dan semuanya nak dikomplen dan terasa susah. am i right? a very well written point. :)

mcm org bercinta kan cakap, lautan api pun sanggup kurenangi. berenang tu… bukan setakat tapak tangan, banyak lagi permukaan kulit kena api.. tapi sanggup gak hehe

hm baru nak faham apa yg dimaksudkan dgn personal note altered tu, maksud filantera… kalau tak sayang kan isteri, akan mula lah rasa cranky dan semuanya nak dikomplen dan terasa susah. am i right?

]]> By: filantera http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/comment-page-1/#comment-1148 filantera Wed, 24 Oct 2007 00:48:15 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/10/24/4-definite-way-to-be-committed/#comment-1148 huhuh bara api......... talking about commitment kan! i think, the solution for holding this bara api is, to love holding them! yeap.... (okay, i am in this mood kay , nak komplen tru fon jer hehe) if we love to study, after exam, maybe now when we are already working....still ada urge nak cari buku, or atleast ebook, ot maybe some article kan! if we love to pray, we feel the urge, tak sembahyang terasa tak bestnyer, cam tak mandi pagi pegi keja, camtu....then bara api will be nice to hold...... if we love our partner dearly, bawa dia ke klinik is just as fun as going to zoo kan!what if personal notes tu written like this: "yesterday bawa mrs pegi klinik, the nurse tu cakap, kalau tak dtg, diorg akan call or maybe dtg umah...Hello!!! mcm laaa i tak tau kena check setiap bulan!macam laa takde klinik lain nak pi, then ada several mother kat situ gak, the the nurse bleh plak ajak gather nak bagi ceramah pasal makanan kesihatan.......ye la tu, nak kipas laa tu...alahai benda y ang dia cakap tu ada dlm pamphlet laaaaa.......mcm laa nurse tu slim sgt ! " okay, admitted i hate myself writing the above statement hehehhehe tp thats the reality when love is not in the heart.......................................................... huhuh bara api………

talking about commitment kan!

i think, the solution for holding this bara api is, to love holding them! yeap…. (okay, i am in this mood kay , nak komplen tru fon jer hehe)

if we love to study, after exam, maybe now when we are already working….still ada urge nak cari buku, or atleast ebook, ot maybe some article kan!

if we love to pray, we feel the urge, tak sembahyang terasa tak bestnyer, cam tak mandi pagi pegi keja, camtu….then bara api will be nice to hold……

if we love our partner dearly, bawa dia ke klinik is just as fun as going to zoo kan!what if personal notes tu written like this:

“yesterday bawa mrs pegi klinik, the nurse tu cakap, kalau tak dtg, diorg akan call or maybe dtg umah…Hello!!! mcm laaa i tak tau kena check setiap bulan!macam laa takde klinik lain nak pi, then ada several mother kat situ gak, the the nurse bleh plak ajak gather nak bagi ceramah pasal makanan kesihatan…….ye la tu, nak kipas laa tu…alahai benda y ang dia cakap tu ada dlm pamphlet laaaaa…….mcm laa nurse tu slim sgt ! ”

okay, admitted i hate myself writing the above statement hehehhehe tp thats the reality when love is not in the heart………………………………………………….

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