Comments on: Secret of Happiness – To Be Read By Couples http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/ Sharing Ideas & Experience Daily Mon, 15 Mar 2010 20:07:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Applying Stephen Covey’s 90/10 principle in our daily lives | ahkong.net http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1499 Applying Stephen Covey’s 90/10 principle in our daily lives | ahkong.net Sat, 01 Dec 2007 18:44:57 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1499 [...] A fellow Malaysian Blogger who goes by the name - banji also shared his views about living a happy life with your significant other, as highlighted in his post in the following linkie: http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/ [...] [...] A fellow Malaysian Blogger who goes by the name – banji also shared his views about living a happy life with your significant other, as highlighted in his post in the following linkie: http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/ [...]

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1432 banji Mon, 26 Nov 2007 16:28:11 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1432 DaPocket - According to this entry, both of you will insist to give all respective's fifty cents, but since on 30 cents each is required, both of you will agree to give that 30 cents away.. then you bought the candy, and instead of eating them, both of you insist that the other should eat it. You are just saying that you want it. She will also do the same, asking you to have it.. In the end, the candy is never eaten and both of you will smile looking at the candy 40 years later :) that scenario should explain the entry hehe DaPocket – According to this entry, both of you will insist to give all respective’s fifty cents, but since on 30 cents each is required, both of you will agree to give that 30 cents away..

then you bought the candy, and instead of eating them, both of you insist that the other should eat it. You are just saying that you want it. She will also do the same, asking you to have it.. In the end, the candy is never eaten and both of you will smile looking at the candy 40 years later :)

that scenario should explain the entry hehe

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1431 banji Mon, 26 Nov 2007 16:26:42 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1431 aRa & Pocket - I'm just joking about writing a book. There's still SO many things to learn, grammar, language etc. But yes I do have a few idea on what to write :) aRa - entry tentang happiness for single people.. coming right up :) aRa & Pocket – I’m just joking about writing a book. There’s still SO many things to learn, grammar, language etc. But yes I do have a few idea on what to write :)

aRa – entry tentang happiness for single people.. coming right up :)

]]> By: aRa http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1430 aRa Mon, 26 Nov 2007 15:43:38 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1430 DaPocket...Interesting...abt the candy la..Agagagaga.. Why don't u share it??2 pun klo tak kisah ade air liur ar..Agagagaga..Saw Britney did that..Agagaga..See..usually,when u love someone,tak salah sharing kan..anyhow,she's the one u love rite!!! DaPocket…Interesting…abt the candy la..Agagagaga..
Why don’t u share it??2 pun klo tak kisah ade air liur ar..Agagagaga..Saw Britney did that..Agagaga..See..usually,when u love someone,tak salah sharing kan..anyhow,she’s the one u love rite!!!

]]> By: DaPocket http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1429 DaPocket Mon, 26 Nov 2007 13:41:38 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1429 For free tu tak tau la... but i think regardless of me being his most handsome brother... i'd still be in the line to get his first edition :D even though he can always give me a copy during Hari Raya or something... i'd have to say putting people's happiness upfront is quite a hard thing to do... its like u have fifty cents... she have fifty cents... both wanna have the thumb size candy which cost sixty cents... u give her the ten cents... n u wont be able to buy the candy u dont give her the ten cents... both wont have the candy. give it to her instead? i want candy tooooo..... ^^; For free tu tak tau la… but i think regardless of me being his most handsome brother… i’d still be in the line to get his first edition :D
even though he can always give me a copy during Hari Raya or something…

i’d have to say putting people’s happiness upfront is quite a hard thing to do…
its like
u have fifty cents…
she have fifty cents…
both wanna have the thumb size candy which cost sixty cents…
u give her the ten cents…
n u wont be able to buy the candy
u dont give her the ten cents…
both wont have the candy.
give it to her instead?

i want candy tooooo….. ^^;

]]> By: aRa http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1428 aRa Mon, 26 Nov 2007 11:21:07 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1428 Banji..if u already come up with a book..Can i have 1 with ur signature for free??Agagagaga.. Yeah...agree ngan tic..ni org single menyingle pun nak tau gak..Yo la..kena lak i slalu blur2 kan..Agagagaga Banji..if u already come up with a book..Can i have 1 with ur signature for free??Agagagaga..

Yeah…agree ngan tic..ni org single menyingle pun nak tau gak..Yo la..kena lak i slalu blur2 kan..Agagagaga

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1426 banji Mon, 26 Nov 2007 09:45:08 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1426 tic - utk org single... hehe idea yg menarik, akan diusahakan :) soalan yg mencabar.. mcm mana nak describe happiness pada yg masih single, tanpa memburukkan marriage life... hmm (my mind is racing) hehe tic – utk org single… hehe idea yg menarik, akan diusahakan :) soalan yg mencabar.. mcm mana nak describe happiness pada yg masih single, tanpa memburukkan marriage life… hmm (my mind is racing) hehe

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1425 banji Mon, 26 Nov 2007 09:43:29 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1425 aRa - heheh by that time, most probably I will come up with a book or something :) (you don't need to switch on ur pc) huhu Anyway, sometimes it is good to be afraid of marriage. Because then we will have the drive to learn as much as possible about it, and being an anxious knowledgable bride is always better than a brave clueless bride. :) aRa – heheh by that time, most probably I will come up with a book or something :) (you don’t need to switch on ur pc) huhu

Anyway, sometimes it is good to be afraid of marriage. Because then we will have the drive to learn as much as possible about it, and being an anxious knowledgable bride is always better than a brave clueless bride. :)

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1424 banji Mon, 26 Nov 2007 09:35:13 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1424 Deimos Tel`Arin - good job. thats a very good way of maintaining a relationship. Sometimes we must put ego aside, and prioritize on maintaining the relationship first. This is very hard to do.. so well done. I must inform you though that the difference in opinion is not going to be any lesser especially when you are married. Only then you will see her true color and she will see yours. There will be arguing (I wouldnt say fight), and you will have to come up with varieties of ways to avoid them, or at least handle them... In the end... it all boils down to how much you love her :) Deimos Tel`Arin – good job. thats a very good way of maintaining a relationship. Sometimes we must put ego aside, and prioritize on maintaining the relationship first. This is very hard to do.. so well done.

I must inform you though that the difference in opinion is not going to be any lesser especially when you are married. Only then you will see her true color and she will see yours. There will be arguing (I wouldnt say fight), and you will have to come up with varieties of ways to avoid them, or at least handle them…

In the end… it all boils down to how much you love her :)

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-1423 banji Mon, 26 Nov 2007 09:28:36 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/11/26/secret-of-happiness-to-be-read-by-couples/#comment-1423 DaPocket - hehe it will be very disappointing when you're going all out with the pampering, but she left you dry.. the thing is... if she really is that kind of person, you will have to come up with another method.. no problem but if she actually misunderstood, and is assuming you don't like to be pampered.. (which of course u do) then things can go horribly wrong. That's why certain things need to be crystal clear upfront :) Assumption is a bad thing in a relationship DaPocket – hehe it will be very disappointing when you’re going all out with the pampering, but she left you dry.. the thing is… if she really is that kind of person, you will have to come up with another method.. no problem

but if she actually misunderstood, and is assuming you don’t like to be pampered.. (which of course u do) then things can go horribly wrong. That’s why certain things need to be crystal clear upfront :)

Assumption is a bad thing in a relationship

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