Comments on: How To Be Happy When You Are Single

By: banji

banji — Tue, 04 Dec 2007 14:46:35 +0000

nolee – hm the best way to still be friend, is simply be a friend. Be the first person to say hi. Even though they ignore that attempt, at least you know that you’ve done your part.

We can never force anyone to be friend with us, but we can be friend to with them

By: nolee

nolee — Tue, 04 Dec 2007 07:47:09 +0000

haloo..banji..sorry i was flying to kuching.. had a splendid department motivational camp cum family day..hehe

it surely does sound a bit insecure banji..
I am simply clueless how to handle this people..
in the end..i just ignore them..which is not helping since i met them anyhow most of the day..

really upset cause i really treasure our friendship..

By: banji

banji — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 04:21:28 +0000

nolee – nolee, where ure going? hm anyone want to answer that?

I agree with u nolee, nothing should change. it is just ridiculous to stop being a friend to someone in a relationship just because he/she is in a relationship.

but maybe what some friends here is saying is to make more single friends, in addition to the existing in-a-relationship friends. but ya.. it does sound a bit insecure

By: nolee

nolee — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 03:59:53 +0000

I really want to comment..but i’m in a hurry..hv a plane to catch.. ermm..
aiyo..

how come there are single friends who shun away from a friend who is in a relationship? I mean when they are all single they can be close..why suddenly everything change?..

aiyo..

By: banji

banji — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 04:51:33 +0000

Icingsugar – true we will never able to buy stuff without money. But I don’t think money will bring happiness, you will be able to buy things.. and temporary happy, then you will start feeling depressed and since shopping is like the comforting drug, you will start that shopping fiesta again..

I guess for temporary happiness, money may be the way to go

Anyway welcome to the blog..

By: Icingsugar

Icingsugar — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 03:39:19 +0000

How to be happy when a you’re single??? Haha…then must rich n confidence in ourself loh. No money how to lead a happy life,how to do all the things you like? Without pretty or handsome look? Never mind,at least we should confident with ourself….
That’s only way to keep me happy-earn much much money….Ha!

By: banji

banji — Tue, 27 Nov 2007 17:05:53 +0000

intan – bersetuju sgt.. kitakan sebaik2 kejadian, dan beauty lak berbeza bagi setiap org, anyway yg paling penting, ialah kita sendiri nampak kecantikan kejadian kita ni

By: intan

intan — Tue, 27 Nov 2007 12:19:52 +0000

nak tambah sket for the point one.

sy percaya sume org diciptakan cantik.kalau tgk betul2, i honestly think, for every e.a.c.h person, rupa itu sudah cantik dijadikan Allah. but maybe there’s modifiable factors yg boleh buat org cantik nampak ugly. Nampak saja.

As for me, other than inner beauty, stylize and dress up, take good facial and body care (dh bnyk product nowadays yg bagi very satisfactory results..), and as for girls, lil make ups maybe? boost our confidence, we’ll feel appreciated and happy, single or mingle.

By: banji

banji — Tue, 27 Nov 2007 09:26:55 +0000

aReNieX – great tips areniex… I like that part on flirting. flirt just for the sake of flirting in my opinion bring no harm. But one must be very careful, not to break anyone’s heart…

Nice..so guys.. any other tips?

By: aReNieX

aReNieX — Tue, 27 Nov 2007 08:03:33 +0000

- widen your circle of friends. don’t stick to one type of people only.
- flirt with your SINGLE guy/girl friends too. If you haven’t ready to give your commitment in any relationship, just flirt with anyone you like but don’t go too far. just to make yourself feel lovable. =P
- do what makes you happy.
- always hang out and chill with your friends. this will keep you away from the loneliness feeling.