soul krasty – yup setuju, macho hensem tolak tepi. heheh time tu kita kena pastikan selamat. ada satu kes kat cm siap guna jarum suntikan lagi, konon2nya dia pengidap HIV. erk kalau dah jarum letak kat belakang, tak kisah le dia tipu ke tak, baik mengalah je. tak berbaloi

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tapi betul la, kita kena nilaikan sendiri, kalau rasa keadaan merbahaya, contohnya kita sorg2, elok la kita bagi apa yg diminta utk elakkan provok dia. selalunya org yg pau ni dia anggap duit tu sebagai halal sebab dia minta dan bukan curi. sikit sebanyak moral dia tu ada, cuma who knows.. dlm banyak2 tu ada yg perangai jahat.

but, I truly believe that if we know for a fact that that someone is a scam, we should never encourage him by giving in. if not… Muslim all over will stop working and start begging. For once, I think avoiding that sedekah is better in the long run.

but of course like DaPocket said, we will need a standard operating procedure. Not everyone is a con, and we need to establish which is which

About that newest method in pau’ing… This is how I would do, “Hm… what?” heheh

Luckily that man helped you ya.. and I bet some shed of tears may appear when he helped heheh

Siti Norgahayu.. hmm of course I remember, but I fail to see any connection with the topic pau.. she pau’ed you before is it? or she pau’ed me?

selalunya kalau budak2 mcm tu minta sedekah, mmg sindiket tu. org minta sedekah ni kdg2 lagi kaya dari kita kan? ada pernah baca dulu, siap balik naik teksi lagi, yg kita ni naik bas je

tapi seingat sy kat kl ni, kebanyakkan yg pau tu, mmg diorg tak marah kalau tak bagi, just bagitau mmg takde duit. then diorg tak kacau lagi. somehow mcm code diorg kut. tapi kalau kita marah2 diorg, mesti kena marah balik.. so takyah lari2, just bagitau takde duit

one day, while we hanging around, we accidently meet the ‘tukang pau’ at petaling street, u noe wat bro, we ‘pau’ the ‘tukang pau’ balik ok!! coz we noe dat person trying cheating ppl within the area wif rm2.. sooo malu dat ‘tukang pau’ yg ‘KENA PAU’ itu.. muahahhaa..

*pssst.. we pau her wif rm5.. hihi extra rm1

so I think in the end you have to be brave to not to let yourself kena pau or just give the money, if you feel pity for the person or if you feel you’re in danger
a good topic, bang banji!!

byk kes kena pau, but one case i remember…

my friend and i are just finished performing solat at masjid
then came a man, healthy looking. middle of 40′s. he give salam, and start talking. i have forseen it already that ‘pau’ is on its way.

then, he start his story. he came from somewhere doing somewhat the something happen. asking us to borrow some RM.

i am very hesitated with this man and his story, because of the story line and timeline is very unclear.

but,

my friend just take out some money ang give it to the man…..after he left, i asked, why do u give him the money? from the story, this point doesnt correlate with this point and bla bla

he just said, when we give the money, regardless whether he is a big liar or what, the sedekah will still count. the rest, let him handle it with The Almighty….

tp kalau minta duit nak tgk wayang tu melampau laa…..:D

another way (newest in Pau)
“errr banji, my account num ada lagi kan? mmmmmm nak kena gi kL laaaa:D”

basically helping people is not such a bad thing.
we just need to have some kind of ‘Standard Operation Procedure’ to ensure no handtwisting occurs.

Banji…
Remember SitiDirgahayu or whatever her name was?
hummmmm…..