Comments on: 3 Personal Tips To Become Better Public Speaker http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/ Sharing Ideas & Experience Daily Sun, 04 Jul 2010 08:41:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1554 banji Sat, 08 Dec 2007 15:41:08 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1554 <strong>syahidatul</strong> - heheh sama lah kita ye, tapi deklamasi sajak mmg susah, sy mmg tak termampu rasanya, story telling sesiapa boleh buat sebab the story itself can sell, tapi sajak.. mmg perlukan dekalamasi utk tonjolkan :) tahniah eheh teknik anggap pendengar stupid tu, menarik gak, tapi takleh bagitau pendengar lah ye, rasa insulted lak, padahal kita just nak hilangkan rasa takut tu je.. good technique though! syahidatul – heheh sama lah kita ye, tapi deklamasi sajak mmg susah, sy mmg tak termampu rasanya, story telling sesiapa boleh buat sebab the story itself can sell, tapi sajak.. mmg perlukan dekalamasi utk tonjolkan :) tahniah

eheh teknik anggap pendengar stupid tu, menarik gak, tapi takleh bagitau pendengar lah ye, rasa insulted lak, padahal kita just nak hilangkan rasa takut tu je.. good technique though!

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1553 banji Sat, 08 Dec 2007 15:34:58 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1553 <strong>Moon</strong> - I agree that Islamic topic must be discussed carefully, not to stray away. But nevertheless, we will never fully understand or learn Islam, So.. it is quite impossible to wait until we know the whole Islam before we can talk about it. Irregardless, I think, it is better to speak on Islam when we know there is someone who is more knowledgable amongst us, just to be safe :) Moon – I agree that Islamic topic must be discussed carefully, not to stray away. But nevertheless, we will never fully understand or learn Islam, So.. it is quite impossible to wait until we know the whole Islam before we can talk about it.

Irregardless, I think, it is better to speak on Islam when we know there is someone who is more knowledgable amongst us, just to be safe :)

]]> By: syahidatul http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1548 syahidatul Fri, 07 Dec 2007 16:48:54 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1548 my first time was in Standard 5. that was 11 years old (eh, same as you la banji). my whole class voted for me to be the one who represents my class in pertandingan mendeklamasikan sajak. practice gila2. i think masa tu kecik2 so tak berapa takut atau tak reti pun apa tu takut kalau present kat depan. lagipun, saya student yang famous kat skolah rendah dulu... in my batch. huhu. people know me as the best BM subject student. sebab selalu dapat highest mark for the whole batch. BTW, i didn't get 1st place because there were a few things that I forgot to say. The sajak was perfect, only that I've forgotten to introduce myself before that! Then when in Standard 6, I was again requested by my class teacher to represent my class in story telling (in BM). I practiced and I was nervous like duno what. Then suddenly tak jadi. Lega tak terkata.... :) Till today, of course I still get nervous.... How do I overcome it each time? It's always by thinking "all here that are listening are all stupid. Now I'm in front so I'm the clever one." Just a psycho thing to give myself some confidence and not to feel afraid of the audience. hehe... my first time was in Standard 5. that was 11 years old (eh, same as you la banji). my whole class voted for me to be the one who represents my class in pertandingan mendeklamasikan sajak. practice gila2. i think masa tu kecik2 so tak berapa takut atau tak reti pun apa tu takut kalau present kat depan. lagipun, saya student yang famous kat skolah rendah dulu… in my batch. huhu. people know me as the best BM subject student. sebab selalu dapat highest mark for the whole batch. BTW, i didn’t get 1st place because there were a few things that I forgot to say. The sajak was perfect, only that I’ve forgotten to introduce myself before that!

Then when in Standard 6, I was again requested by my class teacher to represent my class in story telling (in BM). I practiced and I was nervous like duno what. Then suddenly tak jadi. Lega tak terkata…. :)

Till today, of course I still get nervous….

How do I overcome it each time? It’s always by thinking “all here that are listening are all stupid. Now I’m in front so I’m the clever one.” Just a psycho thing to give myself some confidence and not to feel afraid of the audience. hehe…

]]> By: moon http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1544 moon Fri, 07 Dec 2007 08:19:53 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1544 i love public speaking if the topic is something that i know so i can elaborate more about it. but if it is something that i have lack info on it, i better become a listener than a speaker. hehehehehe.. ex, when i was in uia, whenever there is discussion in class about certain topic (an islamic class), i will just listen coz i know my knowledge regarding islam is not so deep and i afraid that i will talk something wrong and ambiguity.. afraid there will be too much confusion. hee =D i love public speaking if the topic is something that i know so i can elaborate more about it. but if it is something that i have lack info on it, i better become a listener than a speaker. hehehehehe.. ex, when i was in uia, whenever there is discussion in class about certain topic (an islamic class), i will just listen coz i know my knowledge regarding islam is not so deep and i afraid that i will talk something wrong and ambiguity.. afraid there will be too much confusion. hee =D

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1539 banji Wed, 05 Dec 2007 05:19:04 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1539 <strong>filantera</strong> - im not sure about thousand, but definitely a lot of time. Until the words come out from my mouth effortlessly. yup... that's a very good advice, talk slowly, not slowmo kind of slow, just that every words should be clear and some regular pause between key points. I guess the lecturer is impressed when you notice the irrational question :) filantera – im not sure about thousand, but definitely a lot of time. Until the words come out from my mouth effortlessly.

yup… that’s a very good advice, talk slowly, not slowmo kind of slow, just that every words should be clear and some regular pause between key points.

I guess the lecturer is impressed when you notice the irrational question :)

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1538 banji Wed, 05 Dec 2007 05:13:42 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1538 <strong>aRa</strong> - heheh to tell u the truth ara, menggigil tu perkara biasa dlm public speaking, even the great ones will do that. cuma kena pandai cover la, mungkin hafal poetry tu so that takyah pegang, takpun deklamasikan penuh gaya :) hehe skrg gelak hohoho lak ye? :) aRa – heheh to tell u the truth ara, menggigil tu perkara biasa dlm public speaking, even the great ones will do that. cuma kena pandai cover la, mungkin hafal poetry tu so that takyah pegang, takpun deklamasikan penuh gaya :)

hehe skrg gelak hohoho lak ye? :)

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1537 banji Wed, 05 Dec 2007 05:10:51 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1537 <strong>faez</strong> - jgn macam tu, seriously nanti bila kerja lagi la kena pandai tonjolkan diri, kalau tak org takkan nampak, sebab tu mulai skrg dah kena belajar cara2 nak tonjolkan diri tu tak semestinya setiap kali tanya kita jawab, tapi biar at least doktor tu tahu kewujudan faez dan yg lebih penting.. how smart you are :) hm good to know yg warna gigi yg sihat kuning cayaq hehe so agaknya yg ada whitening agent dlm colgate semua tu mcm mana ye? good to have a dentist here :) faez – jgn macam tu, seriously nanti bila kerja lagi la kena pandai tonjolkan diri, kalau tak org takkan nampak, sebab tu mulai skrg dah kena belajar cara2 nak tonjolkan diri tu

tak semestinya setiap kali tanya kita jawab, tapi biar at least doktor tu tahu kewujudan faez dan yg lebih penting.. how smart you are :)

hm good to know yg warna gigi yg sihat kuning cayaq hehe so agaknya yg ada whitening agent dlm colgate semua tu mcm mana ye?

good to have a dentist here :)

]]> By: filantera http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1536 filantera Wed, 05 Dec 2007 00:30:50 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1536 hahaha masih ingat banji berlatih story telling by telling us (me exactly) the story about...emmmm thousands time?:D well on my side, i think the best tips will be, is to be relax. relax as if u are going in front to have fun! or like going to tell children a story. say (utter) word by word. stop at full stop. no rush! no need highly debate skill or what. as if saying "once upon a time................" tone camtu! and surely surely, you ensure that u know beyond , i mean really beyond ur listener........... i remember when i am presenting my final year thesis, i even laugh a bit at one serius question asked by one famous lecturer. and explain to him why that question is simply not related to my project. : D hahaha

masih ingat banji berlatih story telling by telling us (me exactly) the story about…emmmm thousands time?:D

well on my side, i think the best tips will be, is to be relax. relax as if u are going in front to have fun! or like going to tell children a story. say (utter) word by word. stop at full stop. no rush! no need highly debate skill or what. as if saying “once upon a time…………….” tone camtu!

and surely surely, you ensure that u know beyond , i mean really beyond ur listener………..

i remember when i am presenting my final year thesis, i even laugh a bit at one serius question asked by one famous lecturer. and explain to him why that question is simply not related to my project.

: D

]]> By: aRa http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1535 aRa Tue, 04 Dec 2007 20:26:21 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1535 Gosh..i'm not good in public speaking...I masih ingat my 1'st kira berdiri depan org ramai baca puisi,i was 15 at the time..Ngah kursus pengawas...I baca puisi itew dgn tangan yg mengigil...Pegang kertas...ya ampun...audience dok gelak i wat derk je.. Until now i masih mcm 2 cuma mengigil 2 kurang...now voice lak terketar2..Hohohohoho Saat ni i tak tau la keadaan i mcmna klo i terpaksa ckp depan org ramai..I ni klo jmpa face 2 face..pemalu siot..tunduk2..hohohoho Gosh..i’m not good in public speaking…I masih ingat my 1′st kira berdiri depan org ramai baca puisi,i was 15 at the time..Ngah kursus pengawas…I baca puisi itew dgn tangan yg mengigil…Pegang kertas…ya ampun…audience dok gelak i wat derk je..

Until now i masih mcm 2 cuma mengigil 2 kurang…now voice lak terketar2..Hohohohoho

Saat ni i tak tau la keadaan i mcmna klo i terpaksa ckp depan org ramai..I ni klo jmpa face 2 face..pemalu siot..tunduk2..hohohoho

]]> By: faez http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/comment-page-1/#comment-1532 faez Tue, 04 Dec 2007 18:24:28 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2007/12/05/3-personal-tips-to-become-better-public-speaker/#comment-1532 owh,ye..skrg ni org suka gunakan whitener utk putihkan gigi dorg..senanye bende tu xbape elok..utk makluman sume, gigi kite yang sihat,warnanye kuning cayaq..reflex warna dentine kat bwh enamel tu..so,xyah laa risau2 o susah2 nak putihkan gigi. owh,ye..skrg ni org suka gunakan whitener utk putihkan gigi dorg..senanye bende tu xbape elok..utk makluman sume, gigi kite yang sihat,warnanye kuning cayaq..reflex warna dentine kat bwh enamel tu..so,xyah laa risau2 o susah2 nak putihkan gigi.

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