Comments on: No Idea In A Conversation? Try This

By: banji

banji — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 12:30:45 +0000

Vladimir – That’s a very high tech solution Nice though

By: Vladimir

Vladimir — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 13:52:41 +0000

google trends service is good to refresh list of emergency words. ^_^

By: banji

banji — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 01:34:44 +0000

aRa – hehe i totally understand. everything seems inappropriate when it comes to that person. not that we don’t know what to say, but the words just can’t come out. suddenly so many filters

pasal minta phone number tu, tak semestinya buat. kdg2 culture kita pandang serong gak kalau kita minta. follow ur heart, kalau that guy is worth asking his phone number… then just ask

By: aRa

aRa — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 19:31:58 +0000

Agagagaga…i love to talk…talk…and talk… People won’t get bored of me..(i think so) but when it comes to the person i like..i become speechless…aiyooo…suddenly no word on my mind..normally i akan tgk persekitaran and make joke..mcm u ckp la..cerita sal that man yg kat trafic light… Dak pun cerita sal weather yg tak menentu now..mcm itew la…

Nak minta num itew interesting…Agagaga..i selalu nak kira minta a guy’s fon num tapi tak terminta bab adoi…i ni malu siot bab ni..Agagagaga…no wonder la no guy friend now…Agagagaga…

By: banji

banji — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 07:02:05 +0000

azuwachan – ya.. There are a lot of people who like to talk and talk, and never like to listen.

But still do practise that conversational skill. You will definitely need that in your future career. Start slow, maybe by telling a story. It should be an interesting story, so the people listening will want to hear the ending.

Tell us how that goes kay?

By: banji

banji — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 06:58:41 +0000

filantera – hey.. I don’t recall ever giving you any advice on asking for stranger’s number, hm wait.. maybe back when I’m still single hehe

Anyway… talking to stranger can really build up your conversational skill. There’s nothing to lose, if you fail, you start over. But of course, the ground rule is try not to be annoying to anyone

By: azuwachan

azuwachan — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 03:50:02 +0000

yea, sometimes I do have that kind of feeling when I have no idea what to talk about with friends/family/ etc.etc…
like I said, I’m not that talkative, so usually people talk to me, not me talk to them.
to have the ‘ER keywords’, hmm.. maybe I should try that. but still, from what I observe the people around me, they are the one who made the talk, not me, heheh… even though sometimes I feel like talking, but mostly I end up listening to them. what a pity.
so that’s why I talk mostly in my blog and cats around, because they won’t interrupt my talking, and I know they love it

By: filantera`

filantera` — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 00:39:49 +0000

this is one great thing i learn from banji personally hahahaha

i am actually a taciturn person. sometimes i depend on the mood, situation and surrounding to trigger my tounge.

so selalunya tak tau nak cakap apa heheheh

wat i do is, surf forum . that teach a lesson or two. and at one time, i force myself to greet strangers (eehhhheemmm girls mostly) and try to build up conversation. and as banji always says, never leave a nice strangers without asking for her number……:D