Comments on: The Paradox of Love http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/ Sharing Ideas & Experience Daily Sun, 04 Jul 2010 08:41:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1947 banji Fri, 15 Feb 2008 01:05:46 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/#comment-1947 <strong>filantera</strong> - hehe that's why there is an unspeakable rule that we should never compare our love to the spouse with our love with the family. Nothing good can come from it. filantera – hehe that’s why there is an unspeakable rule that we should never compare our love to the spouse with our love with the family.

Nothing good can come from it.

]]> By: filantera` http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1943 filantera` Thu, 14 Feb 2008 00:47:09 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/#comment-1943 huhuhuh lambat commnet sket love, simply, is not a thing that happen in a blink of eyes, instead, love is developed through out the years........... we may say , right now, i dont love her but in years to come, that may change. go out, love, hurt and love again. thats the way the world is. expect nothing but dun give everything. yess unconditional love is definitely all about the love for your family(copy paste only b'coz i am lazy:P)....but i have said this before to one man, "yess family come first, but we want the girl to be our family right!" lets celebrate it! huhuhuh lambat commnet sket

love, simply, is not a thing that happen in a blink of eyes, instead, love is developed through out the years………..

we may say , right now, i dont love her but in years to come, that may change.

go out, love, hurt and love again. thats the way the world is. expect nothing but dun give everything.

yess unconditional love is definitely all about the love for your family(copy paste only b’coz i am lazy:P)….but i have said this before to one man, “yess family come first, but we want the girl to be our family right!”

lets celebrate it!

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1941 banji Wed, 13 Feb 2008 15:34:01 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/#comment-1941 <strong>fairuzniza</strong> - I totally agree. With regards to that special someone, there's no way you can be selfless. You will want something from him/her. Unconditional love is definitely all about the love for your family Hope you can find that someone you can trust. Living without anyone to trust can be very lonely. Trust someone.. and whether or not he/she will betray you, let it be. At least if he/she stay loyal, you now have that trusted friend. fairuzniza – I totally agree. With regards to that special someone, there’s no way you can be selfless. You will want something from him/her.

Unconditional love is definitely all about the love for your family

Hope you can find that someone you can trust. Living without anyone to trust can be very lonely. Trust someone.. and whether or not he/she will betray you, let it be. At least if he/she stay loyal, you now have that trusted friend.

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1940 banji Wed, 13 Feb 2008 15:29:37 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/#comment-1940 <strong>azuwachan</strong> - That's the thing.. but seriously, it is very very hard to do. Loving someone expecting nothing from him/her. I somehow believe unconditional love is only meant for family. When it comes to your special someone, you will want something in return. It's just natural that way. Unless of course you're in love with Jessica Alba hehe Anyway, about your hope that he will know how much you care about him. the only way is just to let him know. Believe me, man can be very clueless sometimes :) azuwachan – That’s the thing.. but seriously, it is very very hard to do. Loving someone expecting nothing from him/her.

I somehow believe unconditional love is only meant for family. When it comes to your special someone, you will want something in return. It’s just natural that way. Unless of course you’re in love with Jessica Alba hehe

Anyway, about your hope that he will know how much you care about him. the only way is just to let him know. Believe me, man can be very clueless sometimes :)

]]> By: fairuzniza http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1935 fairuzniza Mon, 11 Feb 2008 04:24:30 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/#comment-1935 salam uncle.. hmm, is there any thing that is unconditional in this life? i don't think so...(cruel me) but in reality, unconditional love really doesnt exist. even if there is, i believe that there wud be only one in a million (or even in a billion). coz when we love someone, of course we want him or her to love us back in return. even if you're not, it might only be just at the starting point. in the end, you'll get tired and that's the time when u'll feel definitely dumb to love someone who doesnt love u in return. but different thing goes to our family members. we shud and shud love them unconditionally. well, i never encountered someone who befriends with me for nothing. at first, i wud think so but as time goes by, i'll get to see the truth..especially when i hardy can say 'no' or 'tak' or 'tak nak'. i don't know..it's really hard for me to trust someone right now..i just do not kno who to trust...no surprise...hmm... frustrating,huh? salam uncle..
hmm, is there any thing that is unconditional in this life? i don’t think so…(cruel me)

but in reality, unconditional love really doesnt exist. even if there is, i believe that there wud be only one in a million (or even in a billion). coz when we love someone, of course we want him or her to love us back in return. even if you’re not, it might only be just at the starting point. in the end, you’ll get tired and that’s the time when u’ll feel definitely dumb to love someone who doesnt love u in return.

but different thing goes to our family members. we shud and shud love them unconditionally.

well, i never encountered someone who befriends with me for nothing. at first, i wud think so but as time goes by, i’ll get to see the truth..especially when i hardy can say ‘no’ or ‘tak’ or ‘tak nak’.

i don’t know..it’s really hard for me to trust someone right now..i just do not kno who to trust…no surprise…hmm…

frustrating,huh?

]]> By: azuwachan http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1934 azuwachan Sun, 10 Feb 2008 13:14:11 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/#comment-1934 hmmm... the unconditional love. it's true, that love is priceless. it simply cannot be bought by anything, any time, any where. I also believe that if you really love someone, you should not expect any 'payment' back from him/her. if s/he is happy, that should be enough for you. and if you love someone, doesn't mean that you have to be with him/her all the time, like getting married or something. like I said, if the one you love is happy with someone else, you should feel happy too. well, at least that's what I believe. p/s: yet, the only thing I hope from the one I love is to know how much he means to me very, very much. I don't have any idea if he actually knows, btw, heheh... :) hmmm… the unconditional love.
it’s true, that love is priceless. it simply cannot be bought by anything, any time, any where.
I also believe that if you really love someone, you should not expect any ‘payment’ back from him/her. if s/he is happy, that should be enough for you.
and if you love someone, doesn’t mean that you have to be with him/her all the time, like getting married or something.
like I said, if the one you love is happy with someone else, you should feel happy too.
well, at least that’s what I believe.

p/s: yet, the only thing I hope from the one I love is to know how much he means to me very, very much. I don’t have any idea if he actually knows, btw, heheh… :)

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1928 banji Fri, 08 Feb 2008 18:34:09 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/#comment-1928 <strong>aRa</strong> - alhamdulillah, sekali je lafaz :) huhu time banji dulu pun dua kali, but I blame the tok kadi of course ala skrg kan ada AirAsia :) aRa – alhamdulillah, sekali je lafaz :) huhu time banji dulu pun dua kali, but I blame the tok kadi of course

ala skrg kan ada AirAsia :)

]]> By: aRa http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1927 aRa Fri, 08 Feb 2008 06:28:12 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/02/08/the-paradox-of-love/#comment-1927 DaPocket....Selamat Pengantin Baru...So banji,ur bro berapa kali lafaznye??Agagagaga.. DaPocket ~ Muga bahgia selalu yek..hingga ke anak cucu cicit... Jauhnye Kedah...agagagaga... DaPocket….Selamat Pengantin Baru…So banji,ur bro berapa kali lafaznye??Agagagaga..

DaPocket ~ Muga bahgia selalu yek..hingga ke anak cucu cicit…

Jauhnye Kedah…agagagaga…

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