Comments on: Friendship Wrecker – Pride

By: banji

banji — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 11:25:41 +0000

aRa – hm takpelah, kalau diorg tak balas, mungkin ada masalah lain tu, aRa pun tak perlu sms selalu sgt, yg penting dalam setahun tu sekali dua..

lagipun duit ara skrg utamakan yg lebih penting dulu, plenty of time later for that

By: aRa

aRa — Tue, 04 Mar 2008 16:13:26 +0000

Aiyoooo…kengkawan i nun jauh di sana…mmg layak di call/sms tapi malangnya…hanya i aje yg ingat diaorg..abis hanya i aje yg call/sms diaorg…kadang fkr sedih gak…diaorg tak ingat i ke???but 2 la…di kejauhan ni…smua jadi kedekut krdt nak call/sms…tapi i mmg rajin sms diaorg cuma kadang no reply… Sob sob sob…

By: banji

banji — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 12:52:57 +0000

marian – well done marian I know exactly the feeling when we know we have become the bigger man. There’s no shame in making the first move. Most of the time, people will respect you even more.

Also, scheduling another call to another friend is just as important, since we can always forget. There will be time, very soon, when that will become a habit and there is no more need to schedule. We will do it naturally

A pleasure knowing you marian, come again and share your experience here

By: Marian

Marian — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 10:11:36 +0000

I really like this idea and tried it out the last Saturday afternoon (seem to me that people are more relaxed on this weekend’s day).
Works great.
I’ve called an old friend of mine (also an ex-roomate) and was surprised how good it felt for both of us to chat for a while.
After the call, I was feeling great. First, I’ve instantly felt more confident that I’ve made the first move (someone has to start). Second, I’ve strengthened our friendship and found that we’ve not forgotten each other. And third, I know that I’ve cheered up my friend a lot (e.g. by being interested in the news in her life).
…And of course, I’ve immediately scheduled a call with another friend for next Saturday. And I’m definitely looking forward to it.