Comments on: The Art Of Giving Advice http://lessoninlife.com/2008/03/06/the-art-of-giving-advice/ Sharing Ideas & Experience Daily Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:02:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2008/03/06/the-art-of-giving-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-2095 banji Fri, 07 Mar 2008 03:44:30 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/03/06/the-art-of-giving-advice/#comment-2095 <strong>filantera</strong> - good analogy, the best way to see ourselves is through someone's else's eyes. but, it would be best to be able to do just that ourselves right? <strong>azuwachan</strong> - good story azuwachan.. before advising other people, we should direct that to ourselves first. If we are very sure, we are a good example.. then only we can proceed. Even though, I really think the mother is the more suitable person to advise the child on diet. She should only go to ghandi for advice about philosophy etc heheh <strong>amirahsyuhada</strong> - the best person to see the good and the bad in you is of course your bestfriend. Maybe your spouse since he will usually has made peace with accepting both the bad and the good :) But the experiment is actually meant for US to look into ourselves. Not to ask from other people filantera – good analogy, the best way to see ourselves is through someone’s else’s eyes.

but, it would be best to be able to do just that ourselves right?

azuwachan – good story azuwachan.. before advising other people, we should direct that to ourselves first. If we are very sure, we are a good example.. then only we can proceed.

Even though, I really think the mother is the more suitable person to advise the child on diet. She should only go to ghandi for advice about philosophy etc heheh

amirahsyuhada – the best person to see the good and the bad in you is of course your bestfriend. Maybe your spouse since he will usually has made peace with accepting both the bad and the good :)

But the experiment is actually meant for US to look into ourselves. Not to ask from other people

]]> By: amirahsyuhada http://lessoninlife.com/2008/03/06/the-art-of-giving-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-2089 amirahsyuhada Thu, 06 Mar 2008 15:01:46 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/03/06/the-art-of-giving-advice/#comment-2089 i will be grateful if someone do this experiment on me.. i will be grateful if someone do this experiment on me..

]]> By: azuwachan http://lessoninlife.com/2008/03/06/the-art-of-giving-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-2088 azuwachan Thu, 06 Mar 2008 04:09:03 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/03/06/the-art-of-giving-advice/#comment-2088 there's a story of ghandi. once, there comes a mother with her son. her son loves to eat sugar, so her mother, worried about her son's health, asks ghandi to advise the son to stop eating sugar. And Ghandi says 'come to me tomorrow and I'll give him one.' So she comes again the next day with her son to see Ghandi. As they see him he says, 'son, do not eat sugar.' full stop. the mother is angry. why the hell that Ghandi says that only, and not more?? So she asks why, and Ghandi answers, ' In order to advice people, one has to have the same discipline. If I eat sugar and I advice your son not to eat suger, it means nothing.' so the moral of the story, see your own self before you advice people. Cakap mesti serupa bikinla kan :) there’s a story of ghandi.
once, there comes a mother with her son. her son loves to eat sugar, so her mother, worried about her son’s health, asks ghandi to advise the son to stop eating sugar.
And Ghandi says ‘come to me tomorrow and I’ll give him one.’
So she comes again the next day with her son to see Ghandi. As they see him he says, ’son, do not eat sugar.’ full stop.
the mother is angry. why the hell that Ghandi says that only, and not more??
So she asks why, and Ghandi answers,
‘ In order to advice people, one has to have the same discipline. If I eat sugar and I advice your son not to eat suger, it means nothing.’
so the moral of the story, see your own self before you advice people. Cakap mesti serupa bikinla kan :)

]]> By: filantera` http://lessoninlife.com/2008/03/06/the-art-of-giving-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-2087 filantera` Thu, 06 Mar 2008 00:41:24 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/2008/03/06/the-art-of-giving-advice/#comment-2087 yep............to comment others are so much simpler things to do:) but, even a perfect surgeon still need somebody else cut his appendix:p yep…………to comment others are so much simpler things to do:)

but, even a perfect surgeon still need somebody else cut his appendix:p

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