Comments on: Ultimate Secrets of Positive Thinking

By: banji

banji — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 05:08:08 +0000

Clay Collins – Thank you for the wishes.

By: Clay Collins | The Growing Life

Clay Collins | The Growing Life — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 20:34:06 +0000

Great post! The distinction between “positive thinking” and “lying to yourself” is an important one to make. Best wishes to you and your wife.

By: banji

banji — Tue, 22 Apr 2008 15:43:17 +0000

cbenc12 – yes, sometimes we have to force ourself to be positive. All the good things will have some resistance.

Thank you for the wish. yes, I am very very excited Just can’t stop smiling

By: cbenc12

cbenc12 — Mon, 21 Apr 2008 03:20:26 +0000

u like ur article on positive thinking. i am a negative person sometimes and i am forcing myself to be more positive!
hmm.. congrats to a soon-to-be-father! =)
u must be exciting waiting for ur 1st baby~

By: banji

banji — Sat, 19 Apr 2008 09:37:15 +0000

JEMi – lying at yourself is just the same as being in denial, we are actually making things worse.

But that’s the tricky part, differentiating acknowledgment and just saying something. There’s a very fine line betweeen them.

Thank you JEMi for the kind words

Suzie Cheel – I definitely agree. Just by smiling, people around us will feel more like smiling That’s how contagious positivity is.

Maybe you can elaborate more on how you are a living example of this?

Tracey – Thank you for the idea. I will try that music idea.

I’m not worry about talking with other moms. She actually insist a sharing room just for that. You can read everything there is to know about it, but nothing is more practical than those tips given by other moms

Jirel – True. Negativity will bring you nowhere. It will definitely will not solve any problem. But the problem will always be there if unsolved. So given a choice, why be negative right?

All – Welcome to the blog Hope to see you again tomorrow

By: Jirel

Jirel — Sat, 19 Apr 2008 06:05:31 +0000

I like this post. Yes, positive thinking if done properly- I mean withour lieying(?) yourself always pays good.
Being positive helps you to handle most troubles easily. If you are positive you will not think the problem as problem(But you have here again as written in the post to acknowledge the problem). Rather you will start to find the solution.

By: Tracey

Tracey — Fri, 18 Apr 2008 22:59:13 +0000

Something to help your wife stay positive in the delivery room…bring MUSIC! Makes so much difference to have something to focus on. And tell her she will always have a good subject to talk about with other moms…swapping labor stories are always good conversation for the wives.

By: Suzie Cheel

Suzie Cheel — Fri, 18 Apr 2008 21:48:15 +0000

Being positive is so important, it changes how you live your life
Having positive vibes on a daily basis not only makes you a better person, it alos brightens the lives of thise around you- I am a living example of this

By: JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You

JEMi | Tips for Life, Love, You — Fri, 18 Apr 2008 18:10:51 +0000

It’s interesting to see the difference between “just saying something” vs the actual acknowledgment. That acknowledgment ultimately helps me feel better
ignoring it and just saying “it’ll be fine” doesn’t work very well for me

I never paid attention to this difference before but as I read, I imagined past situations and I agree with you whole heartedly

great post!