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		<title>By: banji</title>
		<link>http://lessoninlife.com/2008/07/03/how-to-decide-without-hurting-anyone/comment-page-1/#comment-3242</link>
		<dc:creator>banji</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 16:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Faez&lt;/strong&gt; - Care to share the problem? :)

&lt;strong&gt;Fairuzniza&lt;/strong&gt; - That&#039;s a very good way actually. Coming up with your own method. A true leader actually need to learn this skills, harnessing the talents and skills of his/her subordinate and make up his own decision :)

And as you have clearly said, the only problem with this approach is that sometime you will feel like it&#039;s better for you to do the work alone. It does seem like you are

Task delegation is usually the hardest thing to a leader

&lt;strong&gt;DaPocket&lt;/strong&gt; - It&#039;s like reading my own story :) Yes, in the end we need to get that win win win situation. All in the name of the greater good. 

Very tiring though</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Faez</strong> &#8211; Care to share the problem? <img src='http://lessoninlife.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>Fairuzniza</strong> &#8211; That&#8217;s a very good way actually. Coming up with your own method. A true leader actually need to learn this skills, harnessing the talents and skills of his/her subordinate and make up his own decision <img src='http://lessoninlife.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>And as you have clearly said, the only problem with this approach is that sometime you will feel like it&#8217;s better for you to do the work alone. It does seem like you are</p>
<p>Task delegation is usually the hardest thing to a leader</p>
<p><strong>DaPocket</strong> &#8211; It&#8217;s like reading my own story <img src='http://lessoninlife.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Yes, in the end we need to get that win win win situation. All in the name of the greater good. </p>
<p>Very tiring though</p>
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		<title>By: DaPocket</title>
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		<dc:creator>DaPocket</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:58:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>banji,
i am always face with that option. 
a condition where one of my option will cause 
unhappy feeling to the other option owner.

i always think of a win win situation. 
or atleast how to explain so that it&#039;ll be a win win situation.
like, 
&#039;ahmad, what u suggested is good, 
but i have no other way than to use hashim&#039;s, 
now dont get me wrong. 
the management know his idea first and 
somehow yours is considered as high investment option, 
now we&#039;ll look first, 
both of us know dat hashim&#039;s idea will cause 
the company to loose money sooner or later, 
then your idea will be the solution. 
relax. just wait and see yah&#039;

atleast ahmad is happy,
u are not to blame, 
hashim of course happy, 
the management is happy, 
hopefully:D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>banji,<br />
i am always face with that option.<br />
a condition where one of my option will cause<br />
unhappy feeling to the other option owner.</p>
<p>i always think of a win win situation.<br />
or atleast how to explain so that it&#8217;ll be a win win situation.<br />
like,<br />
&#8216;ahmad, what u suggested is good,<br />
but i have no other way than to use hashim&#8217;s,<br />
now dont get me wrong.<br />
the management know his idea first and<br />
somehow yours is considered as high investment option,<br />
now we&#8217;ll look first,<br />
both of us know dat hashim&#8217;s idea will cause<br />
the company to loose money sooner or later,<br />
then your idea will be the solution.<br />
relax. just wait and see yah&#8217;</p>
<p>atleast ahmad is happy,<br />
u are not to blame,<br />
hashim of course happy,<br />
the management is happy,<br />
hopefully:D</p>
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		<title>By: fairuzniza</title>
		<link>http://lessoninlife.com/2008/07/03/how-to-decide-without-hurting-anyone/comment-page-1/#comment-3240</link>
		<dc:creator>fairuzniza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 03:26:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hmm..
kadang2 selalu jugak face problem cani..
tambah2 dalam keje2 jpp+persatuan yg lain..
my solution?

i always come out dgn my own cara..so that, i dont need to chose either two. hehe..kejam,kan? but sy adalah seorang yg sangat lemah untuk menolak mana2 pilihan. jadi, bila sy keluarkan keputusan sendiri, they would not object. [tambah2 if i&#039;m the leader]. the thing is that, sometimes it&#039;s better to work alone but most of the time, two heads are better than one..

depends lah pada apakah projek atau keje tersebut..hehe..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hmm..<br />
kadang2 selalu jugak face problem cani..<br />
tambah2 dalam keje2 jpp+persatuan yg lain..<br />
my solution?</p>
<p>i always come out dgn my own cara..so that, i dont need to chose either two. hehe..kejam,kan? but sy adalah seorang yg sangat lemah untuk menolak mana2 pilihan. jadi, bila sy keluarkan keputusan sendiri, they would not object. [tambah2 if i'm the leader]. the thing is that, sometimes it&#8217;s better to work alone but most of the time, two heads are better than one..</p>
<p>depends lah pada apakah projek atau keje tersebut..hehe..</p>
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		<title>By: faez</title>
		<link>http://lessoninlife.com/2008/07/03/how-to-decide-without-hurting-anyone/comment-page-1/#comment-3239</link>
		<dc:creator>faez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:06:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hmm,kite pun tengah de problem dgn clinic partner..but setakat ni,cuba je tolerate dgn sikap dia tu..xtahulaa lama mana dapat bertahan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hmm,kite pun tengah de problem dgn clinic partner..but setakat ni,cuba je tolerate dgn sikap dia tu..xtahulaa lama mana dapat bertahan</p>
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