Comments on: Are You In A Relationship That Doesn’t Make Sense? http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/ Sharing Ideas & Experience Daily Tue, 22 May 2012 11:51:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: julliet_aty http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-5482 julliet_aty Tue, 20 Sep 2011 10:32:25 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-5482 the second one "You miss her so much but you never call her.." is just about my bf!!! Its worht mentioning that we are in distance relationships... I mean he calls once in a few days...but then the days when he doesnt call me I start thinking that those days he doesnt care about me, so I start doing the same - calling & messaging him less often... But as it turns out to be at the end he tells me that I dont care about him & dont love him, he is jelous to (i hv no idea whom) and he is frustrated! May be its also coz I started hanging out more often. Mainly in order to stop thinking about him & not call him too often, as Im afraid to be annoying! And also let him loose his interest in me - since guys r considered hunters..and if they r sure for 100% about ur feelings then they may start taking u for granted, and end up loosing interest in u! Lately he was really frustrated & had doubts (!) of whether my feelings to him are sincere, he demanded me to make him a surprise for him to prove my feelings! That was a shock for me! I thought I was the one who should be mad - he didnt call me last 1 week or so... Then I used to think that guys should be initiators in relationships (including calls, etc.), but then my frnd told me 1 good thing - Relationships are about 2 people!!! So I did a surprise for him! And he loved it! Now Im getting ready to go where he lives & look for a job there! So we gonna move from distance relationships to real ones!!! Finally! <3 the second one “You miss her so much but you never call her..” is just about my bf!!! Its worht mentioning that we are in distance relationships…

I mean he calls once in a few days…but then the days when he doesnt call me I start thinking that those days he doesnt care about me, so I start doing the same – calling & messaging him less often… But as it turns out to be at the end he tells me that I dont care about him & dont love him, he is jelous to (i hv no idea whom) and he is frustrated! May be its also coz I started hanging out more often. Mainly in order to stop thinking about him & not call him too often, as Im afraid to be annoying! And also let him loose his interest in me – since guys r considered hunters..and if they r sure for 100% about ur feelings then they may start taking u for granted, and end up loosing interest in u!

Lately he was really frustrated & had doubts (!) of whether my feelings to him are sincere, he demanded me to make him a surprise for him to prove my feelings! That was a shock for me! I thought I was the one who should be mad – he didnt call me last 1 week or so…
Then I used to think that guys should be initiators in relationships (including calls, etc.), but then my frnd told me 1 good thing – Relationships are about 2 people!!! So I did a surprise for him! And he loved it! Now Im getting ready to go where he lives & look for a job there! So we gonna move from distance relationships to real ones!!! Finally! <3

]]> By: Beautifully Imperfect | GTD portal http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-5385 Beautifully Imperfect | GTD portal Mon, 10 Jan 2011 20:06:11 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-5385 [...] Are You In A Relationship That Doesn’t Make Sense? [...] [...] Are You In A Relationship That Doesn’t Make Sense? [...]

]]> By: ｋｋ http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-4842 ｋｋ Mon, 01 Feb 2010 05:26:47 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-4842 God, the aurther speak out my mind. I was always waiting for guys to approach me or want him to adore me. I guess, I have to change the way facing a relationship. God, the aurther speak out my mind. I was always waiting for guys to approach me or want him to adore me. I guess, I have to change the way facing a relationship.

]]> By: qemmal http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-4618 qemmal Wed, 22 Apr 2009 16:55:46 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-4618 hehe pocket terkena! :P hehe pocket terkena! :P

]]> By: tipsgoda http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-4395 tipsgoda Thu, 29 Jan 2009 07:00:29 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-4395 theres a lot of thing that doesnt make any sense in relationship and it can be funny or silly things sometimes... theres a lot of thing that doesnt make any sense in relationship and it can be funny or silly things sometimes…

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-4320 banji Mon, 08 Dec 2008 06:37:31 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-4320 <strong>Steve C</strong> - That's an interesting way to observe the techniques. Just to be clear, the articles are written to be applied by husbands and wives. Thank you for the additional view Steve <strong>Tim</strong> - Thank you for reading Steve C – That’s an interesting way to observe the techniques. Just to be clear, the articles are written to be applied by husbands and wives.

Thank you for the additional view Steve

Tim – Thank you for reading

]]> By: Tim http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-4319 Tim Sun, 07 Dec 2008 05:29:48 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-4319 Great blog, good information. Great blog, good information.

]]> By: Steve C @ MyWifeQuitHerJob.com http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-4318 Steve C @ MyWifeQuitHerJob.com Fri, 05 Dec 2008 16:47:04 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-4318 The problem is that many of these techniques work in order to attract the other person. Sometimes, you have to act completely opposite to how you feel in order establish the initial contact. For example, you shouldn't come across as too eager while dating. These things then translate to the relationship later. The problem is that many of these techniques work in order to attract the other person. Sometimes, you have to act completely opposite to how you feel in order establish the initial contact. For example, you shouldn’t come across as too eager while dating. These things then translate to the relationship later.

]]> By: banji http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-4315 banji Thu, 04 Dec 2008 09:05:35 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-4315 <strong>Pocket</strong> - I'm sorry for that. It is totally not intentionally. I actually wrote it based on what I've done. This must be the hardest challenge for a blogger, balancing life and blog. <strong>Moon</strong> - Relationship is always about two person. So it is quite unfair to say that only guys do this :) Please stop hating us Pocket – I’m sorry for that. It is totally not intentionally. I actually wrote it based on what I’ve done. This must be the hardest challenge for a blogger, balancing life and blog.

Moon – Relationship is always about two person. So it is quite unfair to say that only guys do this :) Please stop hating us

]]> By: moon http://lessoninlife.com/2008/12/03/are-you-in-a-relationship-that-doesnt-make-sense/comment-page-1/#comment-4313 moon Thu, 04 Dec 2008 01:32:23 +0000 http://lessoninlife.com/?p=594#comment-4313 guyz are the one who always do not make sense in r/ship. i hate them! haha guyz are the one who always do not make sense in r/ship. i hate them! haha

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