Comments on: How To Say NO To Abusers At Work

By: Farouk

Farouk — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 08:45:44 +0000

you know that’s a very important topic, not only in work but in general a person should learn to say no to abusers everywhere. thanks for reminding us of these important things

By: banji

banji — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 13:44:38 +0000

Anonymous – Salam.. I’m really sorry about that. It’s been a roller coaster since I’ve been transfered to Sabah. Still finding some sort of balance. Other than that, I am fine. Thank you for asking

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 12:14:31 +0000

banji…
salam
long time no n3…
hope ur ok and fine…

By: banji

banji — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 07:09:19 +0000

Laurel – Good advice. we must first value ourselves and our time better. Then it will be easier to say no to other people.

By: Laurel

Laurel — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 17:19:12 +0000

Great tips!

I find it’s important to discover what’s important to me.

Ask, “What’s my purpose here?”

When we start to value ourselves and our contribution more, it’s easier to say no.

Increased confidence and higher self worth allow us to let go of the need to be liked.

If we treat yourself as less important than others, they can see it. It’s understandable that they then discount what we say and do.

Change our action and in time we change the result.

By: banji

banji — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:01:29 +0000

Qemmal – That’s a good suggestion too. Use other words besides No. Maybe “I promise nothing”, or “I see what I can do” etc.

Thanks Qemmal

By: qemmal

qemmal — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 16:15:13 +0000

betul3.

instead of saying no, i’ll say “i’ll try”.
susah nak ckp no.

but anyway, nice suggestions banji