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		<title>By: Bernard Badilla</title>
		<link>http://lessoninlife.com/2010/03/10/sustaining-motivation-with-the-burning-rock-method/comment-page-1/#comment-5407</link>
		<dc:creator>Bernard Badilla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Feb 2011 01:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very inspiring article. The way you think was so cool. I really impressed with this topic. Maybe I should get a copy of this. Would you consider?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very inspiring article. The way you think was so cool. I really impressed with this topic. Maybe I should get a copy of this. Would you consider?</p>
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		<title>By: arina nikitina</title>
		<link>http://lessoninlife.com/2010/03/10/sustaining-motivation-with-the-burning-rock-method/comment-page-1/#comment-4927</link>
		<dc:creator>arina nikitina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Sep 2010 02:22:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm. It’s a really cool way of thinking. It’s fancy, this burning rock thought, and readers would sure get the idea fast. People really are, after all, motivated mostly because the results of their hard work, patience and learning would do them good. Once they lose motivation, disaster is just a few steps ahead. The burning rock should remind them always what they’re gonna get. Keep posting really nice ways to understanding how motivation works - and why it should!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmm. It’s a really cool way of thinking. It’s fancy, this burning rock thought, and readers would sure get the idea fast. People really are, after all, motivated mostly because the results of their hard work, patience and learning would do them good. Once they lose motivation, disaster is just a few steps ahead. The burning rock should remind them always what they’re gonna get. Keep posting really nice ways to understanding how motivation works &#8211; and why it should!</p>
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		<title>By: banji</title>
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		<dc:creator>banji</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 16:09:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Ben&lt;/strong&gt; - Thank you for the comment. I will try my best to explain my point in the post. First of all, the whole idea of holding a burning rock is just an analogy. It basically describe that we will pretty much sacrifice and do everything we can do if the thing that matter the most is at risk. In this analogy, it&#039;s the child.

I personally believe, doing what we love is a strong motivation by itself. However, most of the time, the thing that we stuck doing is the thing that we hate the most. This is where we need to use the analogy and try to associate the whole purpose of doing that thing to something that matter to you the most. 

Again, I would like to thank you on your last comment that an article worth writing must be well thought and written. I however believe that just like brainstorming session, ideas can be further expanded by other point of view. Yours is actually a great example of how there are always two ways (at least) in viewing thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Ben</strong> &#8211; Thank you for the comment. I will try my best to explain my point in the post. First of all, the whole idea of holding a burning rock is just an analogy. It basically describe that we will pretty much sacrifice and do everything we can do if the thing that matter the most is at risk. In this analogy, it&#8217;s the child.</p>
<p>I personally believe, doing what we love is a strong motivation by itself. However, most of the time, the thing that we stuck doing is the thing that we hate the most. This is where we need to use the analogy and try to associate the whole purpose of doing that thing to something that matter to you the most. </p>
<p>Again, I would like to thank you on your last comment that an article worth writing must be well thought and written. I however believe that just like brainstorming session, ideas can be further expanded by other point of view. Yours is actually a great example of how there are always two ways (at least) in viewing thing.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 16:06:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Banji,

I agree that the difficulty of sustaining motivation is similar to holding a burning rock, but I think that you fail to give us a proper example of what you mean by your simile.  Your example about dropping the rock on your child&#039;s face, while comical, does not explain why it is important to keep holding a burning rock.  This section actually deals with child abuse, not motivation.

Moreover, your &#039;application&#039; about putting food on the table is a great reason not to drop the rock, but I don&#039;t find it particularly motivational at all.  A more productive statement would probably be an actual example of a situation in which not dropping the rock makes it easier to hold it: 

Say you are writing anything - The most difficult part is developing an idea that is worthy of writing about.  This task often requires complex thinking skills and the integration of information outside the precise field of focus.  But once this idea is developed, you can with increasing ease write it out.  The conclusion and the final editing of the writing is the easiest.

 -B</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Banji,</p>
<p>I agree that the difficulty of sustaining motivation is similar to holding a burning rock, but I think that you fail to give us a proper example of what you mean by your simile.  Your example about dropping the rock on your child&#8217;s face, while comical, does not explain why it is important to keep holding a burning rock.  This section actually deals with child abuse, not motivation.</p>
<p>Moreover, your &#8216;application&#8217; about putting food on the table is a great reason not to drop the rock, but I don&#8217;t find it particularly motivational at all.  A more productive statement would probably be an actual example of a situation in which not dropping the rock makes it easier to hold it: </p>
<p>Say you are writing anything &#8211; The most difficult part is developing an idea that is worthy of writing about.  This task often requires complex thinking skills and the integration of information outside the precise field of focus.  But once this idea is developed, you can with increasing ease write it out.  The conclusion and the final editing of the writing is the easiest.</p>
<p> -B</p>
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		<title>By: banji</title>
		<link>http://lessoninlife.com/2010/03/10/sustaining-motivation-with-the-burning-rock-method/comment-page-1/#comment-4890</link>
		<dc:creator>banji</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 05:17:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;John Rocheleau&lt;/strong&gt; - I totally agree John. The correct thing to do will always be the hardest. There is usually no other way around it except to just do it. 

&lt;strong&gt;Jeff&lt;/strong&gt; - Thank you for the mention. Good luck with your lava rocks too :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>John Rocheleau</strong> &#8211; I totally agree John. The correct thing to do will always be the hardest. There is usually no other way around it except to just do it. </p>
<p><strong>Jeff</strong> &#8211; Thank you for the mention. Good luck with your lava rocks too <img src='http://lessoninlife.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Motivation When Motivation Gets Tough &#171; unselfishhelp.com</title>
		<link>http://lessoninlife.com/2010/03/10/sustaining-motivation-with-the-burning-rock-method/comment-page-1/#comment-4875</link>
		<dc:creator>Motivation When Motivation Gets Tough &#171; unselfishhelp.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 04:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] to use when the motivation gets tough. Here is another method by a fellow motivational writer Banji Sustaining Motivation with the Burning Rock Method    Motivational, Personal Development, successful [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] to use when the motivation gets tough. Here is another method by a fellow motivational writer Banji Sustaining Motivation with the Burning Rock Method    Motivational, Personal Development, successful [...]</p>
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		<title>By: jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 03:49:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Benji - I sure would hate to drop a hot lava rock on my kids head.  I wrote an article that goes right along with this one.  It&#039;s titled &#039;Motivation when the Motivation Gets Tough&#039;.  I will be posting that one tomorrow.  unselfishhelp.com

Good luck with the lava rocks.   :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Benji &#8211; I sure would hate to drop a hot lava rock on my kids head.  I wrote an article that goes right along with this one.  It&#8217;s titled &#8216;Motivation when the Motivation Gets Tough&#8217;.  I will be posting that one tomorrow.  unselfishhelp.com</p>
<p>Good luck with the lava rocks.   <img src='http://lessoninlife.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: John Rocheleau -- Zen-Moments</title>
		<link>http://lessoninlife.com/2010/03/10/sustaining-motivation-with-the-burning-rock-method/comment-page-1/#comment-4867</link>
		<dc:creator>John Rocheleau -- Zen-Moments</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 03:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, sometimes we just have to tough it out my friend, and if we do it for the right reasons, our burden will lessen, or we will grow in strength through our integrity.

Best,
John</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, sometimes we just have to tough it out my friend, and if we do it for the right reasons, our burden will lessen, or we will grow in strength through our integrity.</p>
<p>Best,<br />
John</p>
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		<title>By: banji</title>
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		<dc:creator>banji</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:29:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Sid Savara&lt;/strong&gt; - Correct.. We should never underestimate our mind. Once we know EXACTLY the price we are going to pay for our action, it will push us to do amazing things most of the time beyond our normal capabilities.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Sid Savara</strong> &#8211; Correct.. We should never underestimate our mind. Once we know EXACTLY the price we are going to pay for our action, it will push us to do amazing things most of the time beyond our normal capabilities.</p>
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		<title>By: Sid Savara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sid Savara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 01:41:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Banji,

I like the analogy and the point you make - when we make it really matter to us, and we realize that letting the &quot;burning rock&quot; stop would be so negative, it motivates us to try harder and push beyond our original limitations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Banji,</p>
<p>I like the analogy and the point you make &#8211; when we make it really matter to us, and we realize that letting the &#8220;burning rock&#8221; stop would be so negative, it motivates us to try harder and push beyond our original limitations.</p>
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