1) You need money to get money

Im not talking about MLM or investment. I’m referring to the money needed during your job hunting process. You will need some money to attend interviews sometimes as far as in other states. Printing your resume, phone bills, stamps and not to forget those photograph will definitely burn a hole in your pocket.

What to do

  • Do part time job, preferrably with shift so that you can schedule your work and go to interviews
  • Start saving money from your part time job. Don’t start your shopping spree just yet. I know all those years eating only maggi mee are haunting you. yes, you deserve to be pampered after all that. But just not yet.
  • Only after you secured a well paid job and stabilised, you can start on those dream to-do and to-have list.

2) You need to speak English to get a job

Regardless of what people say, as a graduate you are expected to have at least good spoken english. You don’t need to know exactly the difference of past present tense etc. You just need to be able to listen, understand and respond comfortably. You don’t even need to sound convincing to secure a job. :)

What to do

  • Believe it or not, i learnt most of my english from tv shows. I love to watch sitcoms especially those without the subtitles. I guess subconciously the funny scene wil be replayed in my mind over and over again and the phrase become very familiar to be used.
  • Read books
  • Speak to your friends. Try to use proper sentence. There’s no shame in doing so.

3) You don’t need a credit card to show you are working

Simply put, credit card has no use except to be used for emergency. By emergency, I mean “you don’t have the money, you die.”

Credit card is being boast as the sign of stability and class. May be this is true at some level. But in my opinion, you are just borrowing money from your future self 
and in doing so, you pay the bank for letting you do this. 

Avoid credit card application at all cost. If you really need to have one, be sure you are ready to take the responsibility.

p.s. What other things do you guys think graduates should be told before they finish their study? At least they will not repeat the same mistake we did.

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Donkey Tale

07 May Filed under : Lesson Learnt No comment

I got this story from one forwarded email. Enjoy

One day a farmer’s donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally he decided the animal was old and the well needed to be covered up anyway, it just wasn’t worth it to retrieve the donkey. He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well.

At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone’s amazement, he quieted down. A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well and was astonished at what he saw. With every shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up. As the farmer’s neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and trotted off!

Conclusion – Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a stepping stone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up!

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Have you ever heard the question above? A direct translation would be – “Where are you from and Where are you going?”. The question usually serve as an ice breaker to say hi to another person who seems to be going somewhere. As simple as it is, it is a very powerful tool for us to have a full life.

This is actually the very first question we need to ask ourselves

Where are you from?

  • Biologically we came from our parent.
  • Some may say we came from nothing. we dont have money, cloth, girlfriend etc.
  • Another would prefer the old geographically approach. That we came from Johor, Kelantan etc

Whatever the answer is, it will always be important to know where you are before you plot your journey. A map clearly showing the way to Kuala Lumpur will not make any sense right, if you just don’t know what state you are in. You choose how to answer the question yourself.

As for me, the answer to that question is that we came from nothing. obviously we will need to  achieve something. or wouldn’t it be a waste if we end up with nothing. 

To Be Continued….

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Bismillah

06 May Filed under : Personal 2 comments
Cryptic? yes i think so too.According to Wikipedia, Immortality (or eternal life) is the concept of living in physical or spiritual form for an infinite length of time.

What’s this blog is all about anyway?

it’s basically the place for me to highlight the many important fact of life. Any ideas and opinion on the various topics are very much welcomed and appreciated. Thus by learning from each other, we had gained knowledge and wisdom without having to go through the time consuming experience. Still the fact is experience and failure will always be the best teachers in life. There’s no harm right, if we learn from other’s mistake and experience.

There will also be some personal post.You have been warned :)

What’s my source?
Most of them will be from my opinion and view of things unless stated otherwise (research etc). As I mentioned earlier, I consider myself as the thread starter. Discussion and gathering other point of view is the whole point of this blog.

Immortalw?
There is no such words. I actually intend it to mean “immortal wisdom”. Again, please leave your opinion and thought here. Thanks

Editted on 22nd June 2008 – At first the blog is known as immortalw.blogspot.com. It is later changed to the current LessonInLife.com

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