Summary – 4 Steps To Do When Attacked by Pervert..

Talking about hobby, mine is martial art :).. I have been quite obsessed with it since I’m still a kid. In today’s entry I would like to dedicate it especially to all women reading. It is on a simple way to defend yourself if attacked by rapist or pervert. I come up with the tips myself so I’m very sure it can be improved or corrected.. so please do

1) Never give up
Most woman fight with everything they had when attacked by rapist or pervert. Please do.. But psychologically, the attacker is expecting you to fight and so he will try to break your spirit first. The harder you fight, the more violent he will become with the slapping, punching and kicking.

2) Pretend to be weak
My advice is fight if you must. But if you find out he is way too strong, PRETEND that you’ve given up. Look as if you’re now submissive to him, as if you’re going to do what he wants. I know it’s hard to do when his hand is all over your body, but you can’t fight him when he’s expecting you to fight.

So when he sees you weak and obedient, slowly his guard will go down. He is now focussing on how to satisfy his lust. You will know that his guard is down when he is now looking at your body instead of your eyes, maybe he will slowly releasing his grip on your hand. Now this is a very crucial moment….

3) Keep your mind focussing on one thing – Escape
This is the most difficult part. We can talk all we want, but when it happens.. we will be so afraid, nothing comes to mind. That is why you must keep reminding yourself of one goal – ESCAPE. Forget about his face, or revenge. Casually look around, and ask this ONE question.. where should you run to? All other question can wait

You are probably hurt (after being punched or slapped), you are terrified, and suddenly you feel like there’s nothing you can do. I say that this is the hardest part, because you will now has to summon your whole energy. both the mind and the body despite the pain and the hopelessness to do the next step – The All-Out Double Attack

4) The All-Out Double Attack
There are so many ways to strike, but there’s no point of remembering all of them. You just need to remember this – The All-Out Double Attack.

The first attack is aimed to cause pain to the attacker and distract him for one second. (Remember – only ONE second, so you have strike fast and immediately do number 2). First attack is to hurt his eye. Use your thumb and stab one of his eye as hard as possible. Kicking the rapist’s sensitive area will usually stop him completely, but he is expecting that, and being a sensitive area, naturally he will block any attempt to hurt it. But the eye, is easily reached, make it look like you’re caressing his cheeks and then strike.

Ok, now that is the first attack, remember… the aim is just to distract him, you can’t paralyze him with that attack, So immediately after you strike the eye, use both leg to kick him away from you with all your might. This is the second attack. And without delay, get up and run… Run Forrest!! Run!!

Just imagine, if you use up all your energy fighting him in the beginning, you will depleted all your energy and possibly trip when escaping.

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I know, there’s a lot of other way to handle this situation, feel free to add in ideas and tips. I can elaborate the steps in lots of way, but that will only complicate things. And during emergency like this you only need to remember 4 things : Never give up, how to escape, the eye and the kick… That’s it

—————- Personal Note —————-
I’m not in any way saying that I’m an expert, but I have been in martial art studies for more that 13 years. So rest assured, that I’m not making this up and that this is one of the most practical way to escape. But still, I appreciate any feedback or question to make us better prepared.I seriously think that this post is very important, so I will NOT be posting new entry tomorrow (1/12) hoping that I can share this with all my friends.

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  1. 30 Nov 07 4:49 am

    it’s 4.48 in the morning and i thought the first line was..
    “talking about hobby, mine is being pervert”
    =.=

  2. 30 Nov 07 7:02 am

    hmm,penah je dulu de hati nak masuk taekwondo ni..tapi bila dah sampai jordan,jadik malas lak..tp entry kali ni sangat2 laa bagus sbbnye kat sini arab makin menggila..xcukup dengan pecah umah,sexual harrassment,sekarang ni da tambah satu lg..tikam menikam..uisk,takutlaa dunia zaman sekarang ni..

    lusa,exam!!pray for my success,k..

  3. 30 Nov 07 8:50 am

    Good write up, mate.

    Oh by the way you forgot to mention one important attack.

    The “Kick the Mofo in his Balls” attack which would cause immense pain to the Mofo. Probably a well guard area and should only follow up this attack when Mofo is stabbed in the eyes.

    Recommend to continue with “Stomp the Balls till it bursts” attack too upon a successful hit with “Kick the Mofo in his Balls” attack.

    So the order of attacks should be:

    1. The All-Out Double Attack
    2. Kick the Mofo in his Balls
    3. Stomp the Balls till it Bursts

    Cheers!

  4. 30 Nov 07 11:32 am

    aReNieX – ….. I have been quite obsessed with it since I’m still a kid. In today’s entry I would like to dedicate it especially to all women reading.

    eww!!

    heheh apa pun terima kasih la pagi2 dah jenguk apa yg ditulis :)

  5. 30 Nov 07 11:37 am

    faez – ada masa belajar… tak rugi, seriously martial art bukan utk belajar cara2 nak tumbuk dan tendang, Ia lebih kepada utk berasa confident dan cekal hati time2 critical, selagi fikiran kita fokus dan cekal, kita boleh cari jalan keluar.

    hati2 ye kat sana, jgn kata arab lah…. malaysia yg sepatutnya terkenal dgn sopan santun ni pun dah ada mcm2 kes,

    semoga berjaya xm, faez :)

  6. 30 Nov 07 11:43 am

    Deimos Tel`Arin – thanx my friend… but I did suggest the idea… Quoting “Kicking the rapist’s sensitive area will usually stop him completely, but he is expecting that, and being a sensitive area, naturally he will block any attempt to hurt it.”

    I should replace the word sensitive area with clearer words :)

    Anyway I agree with you that kicking the attacker there will often paralyze him, but the attacker usually know that the woman will try to attempt to do that, that’s why I suggested the eye, so only if you got lucky… kick “his balls” too. Otherwise just concentrate on running away

  7. 30 Nov 07 5:05 pm

    Great entry Banji..Very good 1..Salute..Thank u..thank u…Mum selalu bgtau i…if ade lelaki kacau…tendang je tutttt dia…It used 2 be funny last time..tapi sejak byk tul kes2 ni…i become serious..

    Someone i know pernah kena attact masa dia on the way balik ke rmh selepas selesai latihan hoki..Mamat 2 bodo i guess…Dia tangkap bw masuk hutan..tanpa sedar minah 2 ade kayu hoki…Minah 2 wat lemah je la..kumpul tenaga..dah smpi 1 tempat…dia belasah mamat itew..pengsan dia..agagagaga..thank’s God nothing happen 2 that minah..

    I pun pernah actually…it was 4years ago..tau ape i buat…screem like hell..Agagaga..tapi pasal i menjerit la…org dgr(esknya terus tarak suara..Agagaga)..coz i klo jerit…pekak telinga u…Agagagaga…Hey,i pernah jadi comander kawat ok..Agagagaga..tapi that guy yg cuba attact me berjaya melarikan diri…smpi now i tak ingat muka dia bab panic sgt waktu 2..i get dream once a while..ngeri…mmg ngeri..Palis²…

  8. 30 Nov 07 7:57 pm

    ewww.. then the victim’s thumb wil be covered wit his lacrimal juice.. haha.

    here we r advised to carry pepper spray whenever we go. tho i think its not very helpful sbb susah nk apply.

    i totally agree with you. don’t give up. if he’s tryin to rape, he’ll eventually reach that weak spot where he’s off guard. grab that chance.

    and if he’s tryin to grope in public places, shout out loud and humiliate him!

  9. banji
    30 Nov 07 8:58 pm

    aRa – It’s the least I can do to help. Even the mrs is forced to learn a thing or two. Keadaan zaman sekarang mmg perlukan kita tahu sikit sebanyak.

    cerita kawan aRa tu, in my opinion, jgn sesekali ikut dia pegi mana2, kalau dah masuk kawasan yg dia familiar, bertambah susah kita nak lari, seriusly… lawan org sebegini bukan perkara mudah. dia dah bertekad. dan cara2 yg dicadangkan kat sini hanyalah satu panduan kasar, yg terbaik kena sesuaikan dengan keadaan yg sebenar.

    contoh, mungkin mcm aRa, berdekatan dgn org.. strategi terbaik ialah menjerit sekuat hati, kalau ada kayu kat situ, ambil buat senjata, even pen boleh jadikan senjata.. tikam halkum atau mata.

    pendek kata, sesuaikan strategi kita dgn apa yg ada

    Alhamdulillah, aRa selamat.. mesti jadi trauma jugak tu

  10. banji
    30 Nov 07 9:04 pm

    Intan – heheh mmg eww, tapi apa nak buat, itu je antara tempat yg org kuat mcm mana pun, mesti akan sakit kalau kena.. tak kira lah pejam mata ke apa

    pepper spray is one of the best method, if the eyes can’t see… we can safely walk away :) but better know how to properly use. I saw on tv a sitcom where the person using the pepper spray actually spray directed to herself, so instead of saving her life.. she is sabotaging her escape. Luckily it was a sitcom.. so all ends well

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