Summary – 4 Steps To Do When Attacked by Pervert..

Talking about hobby, mine is martial art :).. I have been quite obsessed with it since I’m still a kid. In today’s entry I would like to dedicate it especially to all women reading. It is on a simple way to defend yourself if attacked by rapist or pervert. I come up with the tips myself so I’m very sure it can be improved or corrected.. so please do

1) Never give up
Most woman fight with everything they had when attacked by rapist or pervert. Please do.. But psychologically, the attacker is expecting you to fight and so he will try to break your spirit first. The harder you fight, the more violent he will become with the slapping, punching and kicking.

2) Pretend to be weak
My advice is fight if you must. But if you find out he is way too strong, PRETEND that you’ve given up. Look as if you’re now submissive to him, as if you’re going to do what he wants. I know it’s hard to do when his hand is all over your body, but you can’t fight him when he’s expecting you to fight.

So when he sees you weak and obedient, slowly his guard will go down. He is now focussing on how to satisfy his lust. You will know that his guard is down when he is now looking at your body instead of your eyes, maybe he will slowly releasing his grip on your hand. Now this is a very crucial moment….

3) Keep your mind focussing on one thing – Escape
This is the most difficult part. We can talk all we want, but when it happens.. we will be so afraid, nothing comes to mind. That is why you must keep reminding yourself of one goal – ESCAPE. Forget about his face, or revenge. Casually look around, and ask this ONE question.. where should you run to? All other question can wait

You are probably hurt (after being punched or slapped), you are terrified, and suddenly you feel like there’s nothing you can do. I say that this is the hardest part, because you will now has to summon your whole energy. both the mind and the body despite the pain and the hopelessness to do the next step – The All-Out Double Attack

4) The All-Out Double Attack
There are so many ways to strike, but there’s no point of remembering all of them. You just need to remember this – The All-Out Double Attack.

The first attack is aimed to cause pain to the attacker and distract him for one second. (Remember – only ONE second, so you have strike fast and immediately do number 2). First attack is to hurt his eye. Use your thumb and stab one of his eye as hard as possible. Kicking the rapist’s sensitive area will usually stop him completely, but he is expecting that, and being a sensitive area, naturally he will block any attempt to hurt it. But the eye, is easily reached, make it look like you’re caressing his cheeks and then strike.

Ok, now that is the first attack, remember… the aim is just to distract him, you can’t paralyze him with that attack, So immediately after you strike the eye, use both leg to kick him away from you with all your might. This is the second attack. And without delay, get up and run… Run Forrest!! Run!!

Just imagine, if you use up all your energy fighting him in the beginning, you will depleted all your energy and possibly trip when escaping.

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I know, there’s a lot of other way to handle this situation, feel free to add in ideas and tips. I can elaborate the steps in lots of way, but that will only complicate things. And during emergency like this you only need to remember 4 things : Never give up, how to escape, the eye and the kick… That’s it

—————- Personal Note —————-
I’m not in any way saying that I’m an expert, but I have been in martial art studies for more that 13 years. So rest assured, that I’m not making this up and that this is one of the most practical way to escape. But still, I appreciate any feedback or question to make us better prepared.I seriously think that this post is very important, so I will NOT be posting new entry tomorrow (1/12) hoping that I can share this with all my friends.

If you think the entry will benefit your friends, please link the entry in your blog. if and only if you think this is a must read..

Nothing is fresher than a little bit of fresh air :). So I present to you Ms Azuwachan, today’s Guest Blogger on a topic that makes me suddenly get up from my chair. Enjoy!

Summary – The Importance of Hubby … erk Hobby

5 reasons why people need to have a hobby in life.

• To fill your time. You are stupid if you don’t aprreciate the time and let it go just like that.

• A way to discover yourselves/your talent. Like if you love singing karaoke, maybe you REALLY have the talent to become a singer, who knows??

• Some hobbies that deal with technical stuffs can help you train yourselves to get better and better, like sewing for example. You sew often, and soon you’ll be an expert!!

• And from that 3rd point, who knows if you could earn cash from the expertise??! (I think Dato’ Siti Nurhaliza make use of this way, huhu~)

• A good hobby can help you to discipline yourselves, to reduce pressure, or just to get rid from people around you and to be alone. Especially to get rid from any one that could annoy you, heheh…

How to select a hobby?

• Know what you like. If you like music, go out and register for a class. See if it suits you. Same goes to other kind of hobbies.

• Go online. There are millions of stuffs you could get from it.

Oh, and don’t be too stingy. It’ll costs you some money, but this should not be a good reason for you to reject the idea. I mean, nothing good comes out easily.

Now, wait a minute. Why am I talking about this stuff??
My answer: I know some people who don’t aprreciate their hobbies, except they see it just for fun, nothing serious, a waste of money, bla bla bla…But like I said, if you make use of it carefully, it’ll give you much more benefits than disadvantages.

The thing that I hate most is when you yawn loudly and say ‘boringnye.’ or ‘letihnya’ without doing nothing, or without trying to find anything that would occupy your time.

Believe me, old folks get Alzhemier or ‘nyanyuk’ because they do not used to train their brain to keep on working, so you are likely to get this sickness and other diseases like obesity or diabetes if you let yourself sleep, or rest all the time.

So now get up!! Find a hobby and do it. Make daily plan if you need to, especially for those who’re working. Get bored with old hobby?? Search for a new one. It’s easier than you think 🙂 Now, try a PS2. Final Fantasy is a good one, y’know. hehe…

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————- Banji’s Personal Note ————
I personally would like to thank both Ms Intan and Ms aRa for supportively guess the today’s topic 🙂 .. I guess I will have to come up with more attractive prize for any coming contest. Anyway.. after reading Azuwachan’s entry, I too have the urge to start a new hobby. But before that..

To ALL my friends visitting – “Can I know what’s your hobby? besides blogging of course”.  I seriously would like to know you slightly better 🙂

Summary – Grab that digital camera and let them go

I am human after all, and human farted hehe… Last entry I was explaining the importance of memories. In my effort to cherish memories, I’ve collected quite a lot of items my entire life. I bet you too must have memorabilia of your own. Maybe the first gift from your loved ones, or your birthday present from “Darjah 2” (Primary School) etc.

Believe me, I have a bag full of those. But.. over time, I found out that the bag is very troublesome to be carried around everytime I moved. (From schooling to university to working). So one day, I make a decision to get rid of all of the items. Everything… But of course after I take pictures of them with my digital camera. In other words.. I am digitalizing my memories to be saved in my pc.

That’s the whole point of this entry. Let go of your stuff. Yes, the items are all important and emotional. But they are taking up spaces. Digitalize them using your camera and save it in your pc. You will see that life will be easier and less clutter without all the items. You can even put password to your folder to keep anyone from prying.

First step to a more organized and less-cluttered life

Do you collect items of memories? and if you do, what would be your most valuable item of all?

————- Personal Note ————–
Just a sneak peak of some of the items I collected. Nothing interesting, but they are some of my valued treasure

Summary – Are you one of the unique ones?

You may have noticed that I always like to look back into my past memories. Some people dislike this and take that as being stuck in the past and not being progressive. Well I am progressive. From not having any blog, now I have one.

For me, memories are what make us alive. I like to know exactly how I lived. Not that I will do a diary, just so that.. I will know how I am in the past.. A treasure.

What do you think? do you prefer to forget your past or cherish them?

There are however some people who like to live in the past. For example, a man who is 30 years old, but still behaving like teenagers.. loitering around in shopping complex or spend time flirting with girls. Now that is just ridiculous. Of course teenager’s life is very exciting. Some may say that it is the best time of their life, not having to worry about responsibilities etc.

We can always wander back to those day and smile, but the reality is we are now older and the world we lived in is changing every day. So must we. We need to go to work to better ourself and earn money. That money need to be saved for retirement plan. Family must be taken care of. It’s cruel.. that we need to follow this rule but it is the way things are nowadays. Suck it up and do what you must.

Suddenly I remember fairy tale stories like Peter Pan, where nobody grow up.

There are however another type of people… And I must say that these are some of the most interesting and unique people in the world. They grow up.. they know their responsibilities and they perform them excellently. But in the same time, they still maintain in them the happiness of a child, the rebellious and free-spirit of a teenager, the passion and energy of a young man and the wisdom of an old man 🙂

I hope I can be one of them…

————— Personal Note ———–
I am going to share to you one of the most embarassing memories in my life. I don’t think anything I’ve done can top this. Everytime I remember it, I will close my eyes and hope it never happened. Why I’m telling you.. because hopefully after this.. I will not be that embarassed. (Now that the whole world knows it already)

During my study time, I am very interested to learn Silat (still do). There was one time, my partner and I was called by our Silat teacher and was asked to show the others a silat rehearsed fight. So there were us performing the fight. One thing about us two, is that when we practise, it will always be very serious-like, complete with face expression and shouting. After the fight finished… we were sitting with our friends when one of them whispered to me that I have farted quite noticably during the fight.. WAAAAAAA (blush)

Don’t let me be the only one here.. put up here ur most embarassing moment. U don’t even need to display ur nickname 🙂 Let’s spill them out from our chest (anonymously if you want) and let’s laugh and be laughed at hehe (this is me laughing at myself)